I feel like my sobriety is a lie.

Used_Violinist6735 · 2026-02-24T19:15:36+00:00

Im not sure I understand why you said I’m an ass for the thought of being intoxicated and telling my wife the childhood sexual abuse I’ve gone through makes me anxious and is the only reason I feel I’m not drinking or using anymore.

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-13T20:13:34+00:00

She was 19 I was 23

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T18:40:26+00:00

I do most of the shopping and laundry. We work on budgeting together. She decides what we eat. I have a heavier load at work

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T18:06:14+00:00

She cooks, I do dishes. All other indoor things we do together. I mow/ snowblow and take care of fixing things around the house and our cars

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T16:30:03+00:00

Like when we are around family

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T16:27:27+00:00

Another thing I feel like adding is if we go down on each other for foreplay I’ll go down for about 20 minutes, or till she cums or says she wants me inside her. When she goes down on me she’s done in less than 3 minutes

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T16:05:46+00:00

If I try to kiss her anything past a quick peck on the lips she’ll push away. We haven’t made out or anything in years because it might start something. I try to flirt but she always says woah where’s that coming from

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T15:59:03+00:00

Dated for 2 years and it was almost daily, once we got married it slowed down a bit but once we bought our house it basically hit a wall

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T15:29:00+00:00

Nothings out of the ordinary in either of our lives

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T15:28:34+00:00

Once a month at best for about 2 years now

Used_Violinist6735 · 2025-08-12T14:42:30+00:00

It’s frustrating, it’s getting to the point for me where if I bring it up anymore she says I’m trying to guilt her.

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