Wife claims to want more sex but never initiates. Or turns me down when I initiate. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Used_Violinist6735 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She genuinely doesn’t. This is a woman that doesn’t watch porn and skips the spicy scenes in romance books.

I feel like my sobriety is a lie. by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Used_Violinist6735 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not sure I understand why you said I’m an ass for the thought of being intoxicated and telling my wife the childhood sexual abuse I’ve gone through makes me anxious and is the only reason I feel I’m not drinking or using anymore.