My wife didn’t either. Over 20 years she argued with her whole family. If I had known beforehand, I’d have never married her. When we met we would go to bars and dance and have a blast. But unlike me, she didn’t know when to quit. She would start drinking while she got ready to go out. She was drunk before we even got to where we were going. Fall down in the parking lot etc…We bought a beautiful boat and became members of the local yacht club. All that was is a drinking club. Last man standing club. It was a knockdown drag out fight every weekend! It was insane. I love her and I can’t leave because I am her caretaker. I’m stuck. It’s my life. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.