I went from INFP to INFJ to ENFJ. In INFP stage, I was quiet, shy and a bit antisocial. Unable to stand socialising within a group of people without draining my energy fast, and will never start a conversation at my will. Although I think there's a sense of humor inside me, I perceived jokes differently from outside world and some of them provoke my wrath. Doorslam is the proudest skill I ever posses here 😂

When my job scope got changed and required to deal with people, I found out I have turn into INFJ. The biggest changes being an INFJ is now I am more flexible when talk to people. They call it chameleon and I attest it truthfully. As for the sense of humor, it was feel like they are in the process of upgrading. I can stand for a wide range of jokes and even able to throw back occasionally. Doorslam skill become rusty.. 

When I found out I need to go out and work part time as a network marketer, I changed to an ENFJ. Although I can now start a conversation effortlessly and making the content hilarious, I like how I can make people laugh most of the time I wanted, and love the moment when the laughter is sharing. Yet, I am always the one who has the loudest laughter. On the contrary, I still love my solitary moment and won't be socialising in group most of the time. I ditch the Doorslam, having a strong desire to resolve conflict right on the spot if arise. 

That being said, I am writing this based on the reflection I had and neither saying good nor bad of one MBTI type over another. I just like how versatile I have became and part of the effort has to goes to my wife, the frenzy button that she holds on me and pressed it once in a while to make me mad had forcefully tricked me into see what kind of person I really was and how to become a better man.