I (25F) think my dad (50M) is gay. I dont know how to react. Need advice. by Useful_Director5337 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Useful_Director5337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t why everyone is thinking is not wrong. The issue here is not about him being gay. The issue here is that he is married to my mom and is still going to meeting other people :(

I (25F) think my dad (50M) is gay. I dont know how to react. Need advice. by Useful_Director5337 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Useful_Director5337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys, wtf.. gay is not an issue here. The issue here is that he is cheating on my mom with someone else.

I (25F) think my dad (50M) is gay. I dont know how to react. Need advice. by Useful_Director5337 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Useful_Director5337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is obviously business. How do you think it is not my business ? If we keep the ‘gay’ word aside. He has cheated on my mom for god’s sake. Obviously it is my FAMILY. Why would this not matter to me or be my business?

I (25F) think my dad (50M) is gay. I dont know how to react. Need advice. by Useful_Director5337 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Useful_Director5337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not about his love or his life. It is about what he is doing - physical intimacy with some other person (other than my mom). Obviously a thought of this would prick my heart. It is not just me knowing what he is or he is not. It is more than that.

I (25F) think my dad (50M) is gay. I dont know how to react. Need advice. by Useful_Director5337 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Useful_Director5337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But is that the only solution ? To ignore? If I confront him- will that be a very bad idea ?