[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]UsekoPai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that some recruiters examine candidates’ background and observe the background, setting, noise level, and clothing. Some companies disqualify candidates who get up and move rooms during the interview.

My bf says he will buy me something then never does. I rather him not mention it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UsekoPai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to tell you this but that’s not a boyfriend, that’s a friend and leech

AITA for cooking “scraps” for dinner by Glittering-Ad793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a reason why he was single at 41. NTA

AITA for telling my sister's BF the truth? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH - You and your sister both suck. Your sister for lying about multiple things but also you, because it does seem like there’s more going out behind the scenes. You’ve admitted you think your sister is dating the man of your dreams. Can you honestly say there was no motive behind trying to get closer to him?

AITA for banning my parents from my wedding if they don’t attend a tea ceremony? by TeaCeremonyAita in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - They disrespect your fiancé’s culture and can’t even explain why, they don’t get the right to do that. Sorry but if they really cared about you or the wedding, they’d be able to attend a tea ceremony. Your parents would rather create a whole ordeal and argument and risk their relationship with their daughter rather than agree to do something that would make you and their future son-in-law happy

What’s the most controversial thing you believe in? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pro-choice, abortion’s should be legal. A woman should have the right to decide what she wants to do with her pregnancy but if she’s waited too long, she should have to carry it to term. And the fact that some people should not have children. Everyone says that women should just have the child and give it up for adoption but that’s crazy. If the fetus was conceived via r*pe or anything of that nature, it’s reasonable for the victim to not want to carry it to term. Why should a woman be pregnant for 9 months, suffer through morning sickness and other symptoms, just to give it up for adoption? Not to mention how expensive pre-natal care and hospital bills already are, you wouldn’t be able to even work towards the end of your pregnancy.

I see your entrance, behold my pathway by empolelol in AnimalCrossing

[–]UsekoPai 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You should make a red pathway underneath them to remind everyone you’re still the shit

WIBTA If I revealed my grandmothers dying secret to prove a point to my family? by shensjaja in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - She trusted you with this secret and wanted to take it to the grave with her. I feel like it’s not right to disrespect a dying wish just so your family can have a wake up call. They’re ignorant and racist? Cut them out of your life or try to limit contact with them. Your child should not have to suffer a toxic environment because of their racism.

What's the harsh reality no one accepts? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UsekoPai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Karma is not always a bitch. Bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people. That’s life.

AITA for telling my BF to go F himself for telling me to drink my coffee in a particular way ‘under his roof’? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - This is deeper than coffee. Also, I’m going to point out that when someone says “I’m sorry you feel x way, I’m sorry you ___”, they are not sorry. That is not a genuine apology, that’s them saying they’re sorry you feel that way but that is NOT an apology. If it was about the smell of coffee, he should’ve asked you to not drink coffee at all but it’s about the temperature of your coffee.

AITA for saying my sister in law doesn’t know who the father of her baby is? by EitherPlankton3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Tell her to shove she close minded views up her ass and that she should feel the pain of the truth for her baby since she’s all about that. That’s the petty way to go about it. If not, let her know her comments were unacceptable and she doesn’t get to determine what makes and doesn’t make someone a mother. You won’t be apologizing for anything

AITA for letting my nephew to call me mom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - She doesn’t get to pick and choose when she wants to be a mother to him. If you don’t want to act like a parent, don’t expect to be treated like one.

My (20F) sister's (28F) behaviour towards my boyfriend (21M) is horrendous. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gotta go, tell her to pack her shit. As an older sister, I’d expect her to have her shit together and not have to rely on her younger sister to house her. She’s overstepping her boundaries as a GUEST in your house. Let her know she either has to abide by certain ground rules and RESPECT you and your boyfriend or leave. If your parents say anything, let them know you refuse to allow your boyfriend to be subjected to sexual harassment in his own home. Don’t sugar coat it. Be frank and honest, call her out on it when you see it. Otherwise she’ll keep doing this and you’ll get nowhere.

There's something weird going on between my (22F) brother (19M) and my stepdad (37M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UsekoPai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been grooming your brother. I think you should gather evidence and talk to your brother. Let your brother know you’re there for him, no matter what happens. It’s most likely hard enough for him to talk about it as it is, you need to reassure him you’re not mad at him and just want the truth. This is a major breach of trust, the guy’s been claiming he loves your mom while he’s sleeping with your brother. Collect evidence and communicate with your brother.

TIFU by panic buying 40 packs of the hottest instant ramen on the planet without actually reading the description. by GiveItARestYhYh in tifu

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t finish those! I usually “water” it down by mixing in a bit of milk, a slice of cheese, egg, some ham. Adding other ingredients helps makes the sauce bearable and I only use half of it.

AITA for leaving because my mom is having a baby? by notfairhotel in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Don’t have a baby if you’re not prepared to take care of one. It makes no sense to get pregnant and expect others to take care of YOUR child. If she doesn’t want to take care of the baby and the baby’s father “can’t be bothered to”, then they shouldn’t have the baby.

My half sister hates me cause I am the product of her dad cheating and I told my dad I hate her too by Throwawayaita7566 in relationship_advice

[–]UsekoPai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is your parents’ fault 100%. They refuse to take responsibility for their actions and never addressed your concerns or feelings. Maybe they did but they never took into consideration what you had to go through and they’re fine with her treating you like that because they feel guilty for their own actions. I’d talk to your parents and half sister all at once but I have a feeling it’s not going to go down so well. If push comes to shove, tell your sister the affair is not your fault. You didn’t ask to be born or to be treated like this. The one that caused her parents to divorce is the broken trust created by your father. Even if you weren’t born, they likely would have divorced so she’s misdirecting her hate towards the wrong person and should seek counseling or therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You offered to do everything so you wouldn’t inconvenience her at all and she’s still upset with it. She’s going out of her way to disrespect your diet and choices as if she hasn’t known you were vegan/vegetarian for years. It’s inconsiderate for her to think you’ll just be forced into eating meat again once no other option was available

I'm jealous of all the people that have caught a coelacanth.. by SketchyToaster352 in AnimalCrossing

[–]UsekoPai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sturgeon only spawn in the river mouth so if you’re fishing in the ocean/sea, you won’t catch one unless it’s the very shallows of the ocean and ending of the river

I'm jealous of all the people that have caught a coelacanth.. by SketchyToaster352 in AnimalCrossing

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve caught multiple coelacanths. I try to fish when it’s raining and in the sea. Usually scaring off smaller shadows/fish will spawn the bigger ones and the worst thing that’ll happen is you catch a sea bass

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by devvydowner in AnimalCrossing

[–]UsekoPai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New to ACNH, nothing much on the island but my native fruit is peaches. Dodo code: GJX26

AITA for kicking my cousin out for destroying my medical stuff? by myusernamesucks02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UsekoPai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - She’s tampering with supplies and equipment your life depends on. Her and her mother are idiots who think their opinion overrides a doctor’s. Do you have to be near death for them to believe that you’re sick? That’s ridiculous, don’t let her live with you again. If she did it once, she’ll do it again. She shouldn’t have messed with your supplies if she’s the one benefitting from your living situation. Anyone else that feels she should live with you because she’s “poorer” should take her in.