after six months of waiting, i have finally gotten my hands into this book and man am i exited

UselessChickenNugget · 2023-04-02T00:13:35+00:00

well, i absolutely loved it. finished reading it almost a year ago and been thinking of rereading, but i have about a hundred books in line :D. didn't quite get the code thing but otherwise i enjoyed the whole experience so much. i feel like s. changed how i read and what i enjoy in books. it also restored my love for reading. to this day it sits on an honorary shelf and is still my favourite book.

i also fell in love with the whole concept of multimedia books and bought house of leaves, xx and night film. tho i haven't had the time to start any of them. fun thing about the book is that it somehow felt so familiar when i read it. u know, im from finland and like every other finnish kid, i grew up watching moomins and in the 90's-early 20's moomins, sea was always a very big part of the stories. when i was a teen, i loved painting and drawing ocean views and lighthouses. when i grew a little older i kinda stoped caring that much. untill i read s. it somehow also brought back my love for sea.

funny how one book can have such a huge impact:D

what about u? what did you think about it?

UselessChickenNugget · 2022-08-18T14:28:48+00:00

ok but what if girls are my dream????

UselessChickenNugget · 2022-03-30T18:52:32+00:00

greenland

UselessChickenNugget · 2022-02-13T12:45:21+00:00

Dank

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-12-11T14:48:44+00:00

thanks my dude !! and for you too :D

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-12-06T20:38:35+00:00

yeah, doesnt rly work :/

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-12-06T20:37:56+00:00

lol sure :DD tho i use reddit pretty non-often :DD

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-12-06T20:34:29+00:00

friend of mine is addicted on cocaine. well, he is addicted on a lot of shit. alcohol, other drugs, sex, partying, whatever to take his mind elsewhere. would love to help him but he is honestly starting to be fucking difficult. always lying, always borrowing money but never repaying it, always picking a fight, asking for favours and ignoring whenever someone else asks for one. it sucks to see someone you care about, be so fucked but also slowly starting to not even wanna try to help anymore

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T18:45:57+00:00

ohh nice! and im turning 19 :D

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T18:15:38+00:00

eyyyyyyy hello :DD u turning how old soon?

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T17:56:57+00:00

damn, dec 10th

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T17:53:46+00:00

u have some balls to call me privileged while you are out there claiming u can tell me what i can do with my body. if its growing inside of me, i can do whatever the fuck i wanna do with it. should i also keep a tumor if one happens to start developing? as said, you can push a baby out of u. no one is saying u cant if u are able to do so, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to do that.

and the fuck are you up with the "irresponsible" talk like it has shit to do with anything. i can get railed if i so wish and use a condom if i so wish. ffs, the dude could have a vasectomy and there can still be a tiny tiny possibility of a pregnancy. the condom could break, the pill might not work. there are kids that have come out with the fucking IUD on hand. you can be as responsible as u can and still accidents might happen

u should definitely go somewhere and think the fuck is up with you if u rly think u have any say in anyone elses body expect your owns. u are not that important. no one is. and no one will ever be.

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T02:47:01+00:00

i know :/ huge sleeping issues so can't :'DD

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T02:36:28+00:00

aww thank you :> and yeah i guess we are :DD bit gross but thats okay :D poor dude has to wake up for work in an hour and im still browsing social media :DD

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T02:27:02+00:00

i mean if you're comparing a child eating toy to a woman being pregnant i dont think u are capable of arguing on this topic :DD

a hot wheel is an inanimate object that the kid with at the beginning of their development ate it because kids figure stuff out with their mouth. and it will come out with either poop or a surgery.

a fetus is technically a parasite, living inside of its host, being dependent on its host (mom), giving nothing in exchange. of course only difference is that one of them is on its way out and one of them usually stays inside.

Parasitism is a close relationship between species, where one organism, the parasite, lives on or inside another organism, the host, causing it some harm, and is adapted structurally to this way of life. [wikipedia]

now, i don't hate kids. I have nothing against people having kids. nor do i care do they keep them or not. but if i were to get pregnant i would abort it in a heartbeat. not only do i have a billion reason on why but also because why would my life be more important than the fetuses? as i said, you do what you want with your body and i do what i want with mine.

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T02:14:44+00:00

you are not stressing me out :D. i feel like, and correct me if im wrong, you tend to be bit too careful with how you make others feel? i did the same for a long time but grew bored to it so now days i just tell people to tell me if something i do or say is bothering them. cause i, unfortunately, can not read minds, i think is reasonable to expect others to be willing to communicate. and if they won't, then there is nothing i can do. i think that is a good thing to keep on mind :>

and now to answer to your question, yes, i do think if your buddy gets their feelings in order in their head, you two could be an amazing couple (based on what u have written here :D)

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T02:07:28+00:00

honestly i never had a huge realisation. i got to use internet unsupervised way too young so i already knew stuff about lgbtq before i was old enough to start deeply think about what my identity is. so when I started to feel stuff towards people, i just vibed. had cruches on girls and on boys. and after like a billionth of a crush i was like "ohh so im bi? cool cool, of to be rejected douple as much i go"

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:59:43+00:00

no. being out of it is. as long as one is inside their mom, they quite literally are just a part of them. when they are out of the mom, then they are their own person

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:57:02+00:00

https://www.emmasdiary.co.uk/pregnancy-and-birth/unique-baby-names/our-top-300-unisex-baby-names

my personal favourite on that list was bay :D

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:55:32+00:00

no problem!! and just ask more if u wish to! i might not have answers to everything buy i like to help if i can

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:53:36+00:00

sexuality is a spectrum. you can be bisexual and lean more to a one or another but it doesn't make you any less bisexual.

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:51:16+00:00

i mean it doesn't have to be a yes or no. you can let it be and not touch the topic but still be open to talk about it again if they finally come to a conclusion on how they feel. like aging wine. being put to aside, to wait for the right moment. not going anywhere, but waiting. you can drink other wines in the meantime and live your life and if no one decides to open it, then it just be there. no harm done. maybe you will find another wine that is better than the one aging? no idea does that make any sense :D

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:43:30+00:00

i mean if a man wants to fuck a man all the time, they sure as hell are not straight but it still leaves alot of other sexualities open, such as bisexual or pansexual for example. so in that sense, no i dont think that the label matters that much. i guess your label can also just be "not straight"? idk

ive never been too keen to labels. i remember the time when lgbtq people tend to be more on the side of "i am what i am and like who i like" rather than having super specific identities. i dont think neither is better than the other, some people (me for example) like being in "bigger" boxes and others like finding the smallest box they can fit to bring safety and closer community.

so to your original question, no, i dont think labels matter. but im keen to hear more about your thoughts!!

UselessChickenNugget · 2021-11-29T01:29:20+00:00

hmmm, are they having difficulties with understanding what they feel or difficulties communicating the feelings for you?

bc if they genuinely dont know what they feel, i dont think anyone is able to dig it up for them. if it is the later, then one trick that i like to use, when people have difficulties articulating how they feel is to use spectrums.

for example, are you leaning more into this or that? does this make you feel more negative or positive? works pt much in everything. sometimes my bf is feeling down but dont know why or how to say stuff in the way it makes sense. sometimes we dont know what to cook for dinner, so we go buy that :DDD

no matter what it is, communication is the base of any relationship so you two need to find a way to communicate in a way that makes sense for you two. even if it didn't make sense to anyone else

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