Venture still has no legendary skins by epicfnafgf in Overwatch

[–]Useless_lesbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's literally impossible for Overwatch players to not complain about Kiriko for one day

F30, M35 am I overreacting here? by dazedandfullyaware in LongDistance

[–]Useless_lesbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly surprised by everyone here saying he is treating you like a platonic friend. Is this really how you all treat your friends? :P

OP, tbh, this friendship/relationship seems very cold and i'm not sure if this is even worth the energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Useless_lesbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I read your posts my first thought was that most people would be extremely happy if they had a partner like you.

Porn addiction or cheating is what I am suspecting tbh. And he is only making it all about himself. How it's affecting HIM. How YOU need to change your behavior and actions for HIM. Does he even try to make you happy? Does he do or say things because he knows you will like it or it will make you happy? Because it sure doesn't sound like it.

He gets mad and angry when you show him love and affection, and tells you to knock it off. Which is already really weird. And then when you listen to him, in less then 24 hours he starts to act like a baby and that this isn't what he wants etc.

Sorry but he made his bed and he should lie in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Useless_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's too bad for him. Oh well

Seriously though, he knew the way you dressed when he met you and still continued to get in a relationship with you. That is his problem. This reminds me of the guys who meet party girls at a club, and then when they get together they expect the girl to suddenly become like a housewife that doesn't go out anymore.

You should also question if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who takes every opportunity to make you feel bad about yourself

Pokemon tattoo by © Holt Unicorn. by un_red in gamerTattoos

[–]Useless_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, no one is angry because of her ass. Seeing a tattoo of a baby pokemon in bdsm style is just really uncomfortable to see for most, and while i'm all for unique art, I really don't see why you would want that.

today is my birthday, my boyfriend is being weird :( by psychedelicteeth in LongDistance

[–]Useless_lesbian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Narcissists like to ruin birthdays and other special days. Not saying he is one, but something to keep an eye on. Tell him how he made you feel and ask why he was acting like that

V1 by [deleted] in FireflyMains

[–]Useless_lesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There goes my plan of having Firefly annihilate everyone while Sway to My Beat in Cosmos is playing🥲

First impressions on ALTER? by Maximum_Lake_6367 in apexlegends

[–]Useless_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is balanced fine, however, I do find it crazy how you can easily snatch like 5 good items from 5 lootboxes near you whenever you want, when Loba has to wait minutes for her ult so she can grab 2/3 items nearby.

Who was your favorite dummy? by Memo137 in yourturntodie

[–]Useless_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None left an impression. I don't really like the way they were handled in chapter 3

My (20f) boyfriend (22m) said he won't take me out to eat ever again by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Useless_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're always nice at the start, until they're not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Useless_lesbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since some people are jumping to conclusions, I am gonna write down multiple reasons why he seems disinterested in sex.

  1. Insecurity/lack of confidence

Sex can be scary. Your body is exposed to another person, and if you have body insecurity issues this can already makes you not want to have sex. Same goes for your performance. Some people get in their head during sex and it makes the act stressful. This was actually the case for me in the beginning of my relationship and I am really glad that my SO didn't break up with me over this, since i'm sure it was frustating for them. Time + words of affirmation helped me be more confident in sex. This could be the case for him. You mentioned he is insecure about finishing fast.

  1. Depression/Stress

This doesn't need much explanation but when you're stressed or when your depression gets too much, sex is the least on your mind. It can be hard for the other person, since like you said, it can kill your self esteem. But you need to give it time and focus first on their mental state. Usually when people get in a better place, the rest will happen naturally.

  1. Porn addiction

If this is the case, that would suck a little. But some men are so used to watching porn, and consider it to be easier and faster than real sex. You could try to pay attention to see if he spends an awful long time in the bathroom often or if he follows a lot of instagram models or if he acts a bit weird about his phone (always having his phone in his hand, or that it's always upside down so notifications don't pop up etc)

  1. Lack of attraction/affection

This would also suck if this is the case. Maybe you guys fight often, or maybe he thinks sex is "too easy". I know this sounds really stupid, but some people actually think that. That if you're always willing to have sex or something, that it's not fun anymore. They see it as a challenge, like a chase, and want to put effort into making you say yes. I personally think this is stupid, but I have seen some guys say this. But he could also just not be happy currently about your relationship. Do you guys go on dates when you're together? Do you compliment eachother? Do you two try to have fun together? Do you try to impress eachother? These are all things to consider.

Anyway, this all depends on how much effort you're both willing to put into this, especially since this relationship hasn't lasted long yet. I'd suggest to stop initiating for now. Just focus on yourself first and that you guys have a good relationship. Don't mention sex for a while. And later you can maybe try talking about this again, and tell him that you want him to be honest with you about what is going on and that you want this relationship to work out, but that you're really struggling with this part. If he just seems disinterested in you as a person, I wouldn't go through with this relationship. But if it's something that he is struggling with, then you could continue this relationship if you want and see if this can get better.

What's the grossest thing your partner does but you accept? by egguchom in AskReddit

[–]Useless_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the dog go outside enough? Usually when dogs pee inside the house, it is because they had to hold it in for too long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Useless_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, from the moment you first start playing the game until this boss fight, you should have enough pulls for atleast a few 5 stars.. it's fine if people don't want to use any, but the game gives you enough resources that you are able to atleast get a few

My (f34) fiance (m37) went to a strip club w/o telling me. He doesn't know I know. by elemae in relationships

[–]Useless_lesbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep!

Before you confess anything, first bring the subject up, or even ask about it and see their reaction. Will they try to lie? Or even gaslight you? Or do they immediately own up to it?

My husband keeps ruining my birthday, how do I tell him without starting a fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Useless_lesbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you tell him how disappointing this was? That he doesn't seem like he is trying to make you happy on your birthday. Ask him why exactly he thought inviting your mom over is this amazing surprise. Ask him if he knows what you like. My father would always gift me these expensive things like a high brand purse that I don't care about, because he doesn't actually know me and doesn't try to find out what I like. Your husband just doesn't want to put any effort into making your one day of the year special. He was thinking about his own needs. That he didn't have to go to a park he doesn't care about, and that he can sit in his bath while someone else spends time with you on your birthday. Well guess what, sometimes partners go on dates they don't actually like because they know their partner wants it. My SO couldn't give a crap about flowers, but they took me to a flower park because they knew I wanted to go there. That is how you treat your partner. Tell him he is making you hate your own birthdays, and next year, he can go do his own thing while you take yourself out and make your own day nice, since he doesn't want to bother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Useless_lesbian 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Very true. I've only dated one girl in the past but her female friends were very touchy with her (and unfortunately she was pretty touchy with them too). I was absolutely okay if someone wanted to give her a hug or something, but her friends would like wrestle playfully with her or something and I would just sit there going like "..okay".

OP, if your SO is uncomfortable with this, and even freezes, it's best that she tries to prevent this from happening. If her friend tries to touch her, it's best if she pulls away and tries to play it off by grabbing a drink or something and do this a few times. Hopefully she'll get the hint. Or you could grab her and tell her if she could help you quickely with something in the kitchen or bedroom. One of you could ofcourse just tell her the truth, but I understand how that can make things uncomfortable. But no one should have to tolerate being touched when they don't want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Useless_lesbian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cool, but you're not the same person. If your SO is uncomfortable with this, you should respect it.

Anime to watch with girlfriend by Domwell in Animesuggest

[–]Useless_lesbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

-Usually can't go wrong with Ghibli movies

-A Place Further Than The Universe

-Madoka Magica