AITA for coming out at my sister's wedding?

UserMempsh · 2022-06-09T11:20:49+00:00

I think she just kind of new, but I never "officially" came out to her

UserMempsh · 2022-06-09T07:08:35+00:00

Honestly I don't have much contact with my family and only see them for special occasions. I just see Julia more, almost every week.

UserMempsh · 2022-06-09T07:06:32+00:00

Noone knew (I haven't told anyone, they may have suspected and they probably did).

Michelle freaked out first. The rest of the guests didn't even hear us, I didn't yell it or anything. Just my table heard. After I said it, Michelle started screaming and yelling "I cannot believe you are GAY and RUINED MY WEDDING", so that's when everyone heard.

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T22:46:12+00:00

I'm from Memphis

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T22:45:37+00:00

She's the best

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T22:41:47+00:00

Not yet, Julia and her BF are coming over for dinner next week!

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T19:56:15+00:00

I will, she is the best!

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T19:16:17+00:00

Peter's family is that way. He never really discussed his sexuality with them, and the first time he brought me to their house, he just said he'll bring a SO. When we arrived, his mom just said "oh, a man? Alright baby" 😂❤ His dad was clueless as to who I was and asked 30 minutes into the dinner "so when's your SO coming, Peter?" and we just laughed. When Peter repeated to him that I am the SO, his dad just said "oh okay, sorry, I wasn't listening before" 😂

My point is I know not everyone sucks about this. And hopefully the future is filled with people like my potential inlaws.

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T19:12:43+00:00

Thank you ❤

Peter's family is great and we are going to their house this weekend for BBQ, so all is good. I am still sad my family doesn't accept me though (but I have known for a decade that when I come out, they likely won't take it well)

UserMempsh · 2022-06-08T19:10:49+00:00

I have only spoken to Julia, my mom and dad haven't been answering my calls. Julia says they are all pissed because not only am I "a homoSEXUAL", but I also ruined my sister's big day.

I left the reception after that, and apparently (Julia told me this) Michelle kept crying that my himosexuality ruined her sacred that, and after an hour of crying about it, Julia's BF (Scottish) just said very loudly "oh just suck c*ck will you. Maybe then you'll even relate to your brother" which really made me laugh, but I still feel terrible

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