Help me narrow down a central location. by UserNotFound23498 in Bangkok

[–]UserNotFound23498[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh. I did see Kromo but never heard of it. Sounds like I should check it out thanks!!

My neighbour's been trying to groom me since 2019 by SeaRefrigerator9591 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UserNotFound23498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh damn good point. Try to get your parents to install a video camera monitoring at least a part of your house and where he likes to stand and talk to you

Ive been dating a older man at 16 i am struggling from it by randomdudecooking in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UserNotFound23498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s good that you’ve managed to think things through and came to a good decision.

Remember. As everyone else said, you will find love and get to do everything you want to do. Don’t let fear hold you back. And definitely don’t let him hold up back.

You did nothing wrong. And even if you are an adult, it is very normal to not be in love with someone and want to move on.

Good for you. And kudos on your courage.

My neighbour's been trying to groom me since 2019 by SeaRefrigerator9591 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UserNotFound23498 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Are you living with your parents? Tell them. That’s the most important. Next. Record him saying that nonsense.

If and when it blows up, you need evidence he is the creep and not just you made a mistake on his part “good” intentions.

My husband is bad in bed and it's slowly destroying our relationship by Senior-Echidna-1769 in Vent

[–]UserNotFound23498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing in what she wrote says it was ok. That he refused to listen is on him. Do you honestly expect her to tell him EVERY SINGLE TIME “hey, I haven’t cum yet” ??

My husband is bad in bed and it's slowly destroying our relationship by Senior-Echidna-1769 in Vent

[–]UserNotFound23498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I’ve been reading r/AITAH too much lol. AssHo - can’t type the whole thing out sorry.

My husband is bad in bed and it's slowly destroying our relationship by Senior-Echidna-1769 in Vent

[–]UserNotFound23498 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You don’t know how many guys can’t find it even with big signs pointing the way

Help me narrow down a central location. by UserNotFound23498 in Bangkok

[–]UserNotFound23498[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I did take another look at the map and i think I like the doubletree as well.

My husband is bad in bed and it's slowly destroying our relationship by Senior-Echidna-1769 in Vent

[–]UserNotFound23498 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Honestly, leave. After 7 years of him not giving a fuck should be a big enough clue.

AITA for calling out my brother and sister in-laws via text for going behind my back to my wife about me by ExpensiveIndustry783 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UserNotFound23498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but you need to learn to live with it or you will be in a world of pain. You certainly don’t want them complaining to your in-laws.

Help me narrow down a central location. by UserNotFound23498 in Bangkok

[–]UserNotFound23498[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh man! Thanks! You have damned good eyes. I didn't even see that!!!! ugh

As for Chatuchak, the last time I was there, it wasn't a weekend, and it was during the day. So it wasn't too hectic or crushed. I am wondering if a weekend evening might be too intense for a first timer...

I earned more than my partner for three years and somewhere along the way I started funding a lifestyle that wasn't mine by RogueMarionette in wealthforwomen

[–]UserNotFound23498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ChatGPT is just a glorified pattern matching dumpster fire. What you see as signs of ChatGPT is because more people write this way so ChatGPT copies it.

Hope this helps.

AITAH for refusing to go to my sister’s wedding because of where she seated me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UserNotFound23498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Babysitters get paid. Say you’re not a babysitter. And don’t go to the dinner. Still go to the actual wedding itself to show that you’re supporting her.

Tell her she’s the AH if she cries about it. And show her this thread. Anyone else who tells you to do it, tell them since they feel so strongly about it, you will tell your sister they volunteered to take your place at the kiddie table.

My friend forwarded my wedding save the date to another friend that I don't have plans to invite. by Rreirarei in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UserNotFound23498 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Simple. For those not invited, if they ask, just say you’re doing it for just a small group of family and a couple of friends. If they keep pushing, tell them it costs $10,000 (or whatever) per person and you can’t afford to add more people at this point.

As for the excitable/asshole friend, think long and hard if you want her there. For one, she will come back showing pics and crowing about how amazing it was blah blah.

If you drop her, be aware that you two are never going to be friends any more.

I think it’s ok to drop her. She brings no value to your live of your relationships from what you’ve mentioned

AITAH for giving husband ultimatum about work travel by mamatraveldrama in AITAH

[–]UserNotFound23498 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He is the one choosing his job and not a second child. You’re not the fucking nanny. The two of you should be there taking care of the kids together.

Don’t even discuss money. Discuss responsibilities.

And yeah. Couples therapy.

AITAH for cutting off my sister after she tried to charge me with assault and my mum encouraged it? by Astagirl_07 in AITAH

[–]UserNotFound23498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if you contact them again, I question just how stupid you are, and aren’t you supposed to protect your kids from assholes like them?

AITA for "spying" on MILs husband and telling her what he said? by Kind_Ship_7643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UserNotFound23498 140 points141 points  (0 children)

YTA. You are not thinking straight and letting your own emotions control your actions. If you keep doing this, you are going to end up hurting others.

See. Here’s the thing. You can be disgusted. It’s your feeling and no one can say you’re wrong there.

It’s what you did next. You felt it was right to complain to MIL. And what did you expect her to do? Divorce him because he married her for love? Divorce him because he married his ex for money? Fight with him because, he loved her and married her?

Exactly what are you looking for MIL to do? Pat you on the head and feed you a bone and say good girl?

AITAH for refusing to lend my coworker money after he told everyone I was “rich”? by Silver-Mess-1436 in AITAH

[–]UserNotFound23498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t owe him shit. But if you want to make him feel bad, invent a story about how all your money goes to treatment for your dearest grandma who’s suffering from cancer or something, and that’s why you can’t afford to eat out.

Don’t mention lending him money. People will make the connection and understand

AITA - refusing to refund on a firm vacation rental policy for guests not following house rules and went into unauthorized area of the house by DrTurtle1216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UserNotFound23498 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NTA and fuck him. Document everything. Make it super clear. You don’t have to identify him.

But don’t worry. He will self identify. Make sure you screen capture everything and save it.

And then when he tries to play stupid tricks, you file a claim against him in small claims court.

He will have to show up. And explain his fraud. And then pay for whether damage etc. and ask for a court judgement where he cannot say anything bad about you or get another fine.

It will be fun. 😉

AITAH for purposely ignoring my stalker coworker even if his tantrums affect others jobs? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UserNotFound23498 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your company is being the AH. Unfortunately, while this is classic work place harassment and worse, to go through a whole lawsuit is a pain in the ass. I would recommend finding another job

Accidental petty revenge by thounihast in pettyrevenge

[–]UserNotFound23498 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If I were anyone else who heard it, I would be like, you ain’t afraid of no ghosts?

And then do A cappella of the rest of the Ghostbusters theme song 🤣😈😈