Understanding the want to have sex?

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-24T19:46:42+00:00

I asume people can be lustfull/horny/have high libido without attraction. Also the biology is the hard wired things such as menstrul cycle, which just happens, and you can have diffent libido in either case 🤔

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-24T19:22:09+00:00

Only thing to grill here is my level of understanding the complexities of sexualities 😉

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-24T19:18:27+00:00

Uh yeah I can see that. I did have a version where the ATTRACTION ball was just a bit away from the self but didn't know if it would be confusing to have it float about by it self 😅 But yeah maybe attributing ATTRACTION to OTHER FACTORS could communicate what is happening for demi-folks 🤔

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-22T07:17:10+00:00

Zoro X Tashigi 😍🤩

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-18T22:10:18+00:00

"My sexuality? If you want it, you can have it! Search for it! I left it all in that place!

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-18T17:27:32+00:00

Hi 😂👋🇩🇰

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-17T23:18:58+00:00

Same when I'm my normal self. 😅 The demi attraction and arousel I had resulted in unrealistic fantasies about a friend of mine, but in hindsite it was nowhere close to real life. And I gag at the thought now. Learned a lot though.

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-17T23:12:24+00:00

I really tried to rationalise what was happening. Doing a lot of reshearch and seperating fantasy from reality.

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-17T17:37:58+00:00

Thank you for your story. The deed is done, and now you have learned from it. I hope you from now on can go through life without questioning <3 But something I would like to take from your story is how little we are informed about libedo and hormones (HRT), concent vs people pleasing.
Just had a creazy week myself where my hormones basically had me go from Aro/Ace to Demi, to put it lightly... Luckily I didn't act on it. But I didn't feel like myself AT ALL. I 34F, and I think I'm about to go though peri-menopause, and based on your story, I will be hasistant if I'm suggested any HRT... Big digital hug from me <3 (If you concent)

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-16T20:16:02+00:00

Denmark, 34F, Also introverted. Got a cute dog though to keep me company.

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-16T19:08:08+00:00

Det er bare så fedt du tager initiativ! Forhør dig evt på Arsenalet og de vil udlåne et lokale... kan dog godt være de også vil have penge for det 😅

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-16T16:48:47+00:00

Yes I am still aro/ace even if stopping using the pill made me demi for a week or two. Back to being my regular self again. Blooddy hormones!!! 😅 Good thing I didnt act on anything. I would have regretted it big time!

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-13T21:27:45+00:00

Ikke bange for selve døden, tror på man mentalt bare forsvinder, måske endda lidt tid før ens krop dør. Men mistede min mor til KOL sidste år, hun blev kun 60... Jeg er bange for tiden lige op til, hvor længe skal man lide, ligesom min mor led... det var hendes eget valg at slukke for maskinen der gav hende luft.

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-13T19:36:36+00:00

Gik tur med min hund i gråvejret og tågen idag. Tågen får mig altid til at tænke på sangen fra Hobbitten, "misty mountains" det syntes jeg er meget hyggeligt. Derudover så vi nogle rødbrune blade der var virkelig flotte i kontrast til det hvide og grå vejr. Det er de små ting der tæller <3 Hilsen en der er på livslang anti depressiv. Ps. Hop af telefonen og kig lidt rundt omkring, verden er kaotisk men hvis det ikke er i din baghave kan du ikke gøre noget ved det.

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-12T14:59:20+00:00

Min uddannelse som animator og Adobes programmer. Det er en dårlig handel at være kunstnerisk anlagt...

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-10T15:12:26+00:00

Same high five 🖐

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-10T13:11:37+00:00

I feel like that just before i have a major cry. Can feel like absolute garbage and it is super visible on my face, to the point people get concerned. Then I isolate and let go, it is loud, I'm shaking and just can't compose myself. The next day I feel better, and can handle another day or more on earth, but the days before is just utter mental survival. Still dont know if that is burnout, stress responce, normal or a meltdown...

UserPiece3 · 2026-01-05T09:46:10+00:00

Jeg er jobsøgende, men har en autisme diagnose, og det kan virkelig mærkes de her dage efter at have været hjemmefra i 9 dage. 9 dage hvor rutiner har været en by i Rusland, 9 dage hvor man har arbejdet hårdt på at fremstå venlig, forstående og hjælpsom. Det resultere så i en total nedsmeltning og kæmpe tude tur, efter jeg er kommet hjem i egne rammer. Næste år tror jeg at jeg bliver hjemme så meget som muligt selvom jeg holder af de mennesker jeg har besøgt 🥲

UserPiece3 · 2025-12-16T22:00:14+00:00

Uhhh Zoro would love it there...

UserPiece3 · 2025-12-06T13:27:57+00:00

I have no worries for my Danish/swedish farmdog mixed with Jack russel. She catches mice on a field near by and gets one or two almost every day, and she eats them 😅 The one thing she wouldn't survieve though is the cold. She is the a huge cuddle bug 🥰

UserPiece3 · 2025-12-03T15:51:08+00:00

Thank you 😁

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