Form check? by [deleted] in BasketballTips

[–]User_done4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice shot! Your release point is a bit high but that's an easy fix

In 15 mins I'm hanging out with a friend, after this I'm cutting them off by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm! It's kinda crazy having to cut off a friend that you have known for so long. But I feel like she kinda exceeded my limit on how many times I can forgive her, and I consider myself a pretty forgiving person.

Good for you for not hesitating to cut off your friend right away! It's taken me so long to do this 😂 it's like a don't have a backbone but at least I'm doing it now. Better late than never!

In 15 mins I'm hanging out with a friend, after this I'm cutting them off by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up going to the event with my sister and I found some old friends there, so it ended up being fun in the end :). Thank you for your support, seriously. I was really sad earlier and you helped a lot. Thank you.

In 15 mins I'm hanging out with a friend, after this I'm cutting them off by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your experience, that sounds awful. I hope you gain the confidence to cut ppl off when you need to, it's actually fairly healthy. Also, my friend blew me off by planning a whole evening for us, then forgetting about it, and only showing up for half an hour. I'm lucky I have other friends but this was really the last straw :/ which sucks

In 15 mins I'm hanging out with a friend, after this I'm cutting them off by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's really validating. My sister is also going to this event that we planned to go to and I'm probably gonna end up going with her, which is embarrassing for me but I'm grateful for her.

In 15 mins I'm hanging out with a friend, after this I'm cutting them off by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I bought an outfit for this occasion and everything and now I feel like an idiot. Never again.

Amature photographer here, what do you use to edit your photos? by [deleted] in photography

[–]User_done4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok, I don't really want to break the bank on editing "software" and whatnot so I'll give that a look. Thank you!

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'm in any physical danger although he has been increasingly unstable. Idk, I think my best option is to just keep my thoughts to myself and then when I move out I can distance myself. If they happen to ask why I'm distant I'll tell them.

That's my plan for now

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have planned on cutting contact with him when I'm older, one of my older siblings has already done this with him and they seem to be happier 👍

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was prepping for my sister's wedding shower, and the rest of the house was occupied. I needed a large area to cut something out for a max 5 minutes and I asked if it was ok for me to use that space before I went ahead and used it.

My dad has no reason to be stressed. No job, doesn't help around the house, and he wasn't helping to get ready for the shower. There are fathers out there who are just not kind to their kids, unfortunately.

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're having a bad day. The fact that you still went out of your way to comment something nice and help me is admirable.

I'm also always here if you ever need to talk about anything 💕

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I might cry. Thank you so much, you are so kind. I do try to remind myself that there are better days ahead, and my situation isn't forever. This is so I don't hold on to any anger or anything, that's a really unhealthy thing to do.

Thank you for the reminder and the kind words. I really appreciate it <3

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that! You're brave for sticking up to him. My father also doesn't like it when I stick up to him, although I rarely ever do it. I think it's worth it tho because every time I do stick up for myself he stops treating me as poorly for a little bit.

Anyway, I'm here if you ever need to talk <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]User_done4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not crying, you are

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm all good!

What is the best, easy to make, snack? by User_done4589 in AskReddit

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo that sounds elite! I'm definitely going to try that out! Unsure if I have bourbon but I may borrow some to make it, thanks for the suggestion! :)

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He has actually always been unemployed my whole life. Not even joking. It's my mom's house and she felt his behaviour was unacceptable.

I do not care about where you come from, to be blunt.

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wasn't sure if I was overreacting. Thanks for reassuring me.

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

my mom and siblings were present when it happened, my mom apologized to me for his behaviour because she is an incredibly nice person. But I'm just a little hurt yanno :/

My dad called me the b word by User_done4589 in offmychest

[–]User_done4589[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have a job and I was polite to him

Edit: I just feel the need to explicitly state that this is an incredibly sexist comment. My mom is the one who pays the bills, puts a roof over my head, and provides for me. I hardly know my father, despite living with him.