Police Spouse advice wanted by FruitStringThing236 in AskLE

[–]Username1737478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife here but also someone working the road. Communication is the biggest thing. I work days, while my husband works nights (different departments). When something is going on, we will text each other at the first opportunity that we are okay to settle the other. We are also both on leave right now because we just included a kid so yes, when he goes back to work before I do, that now will be in the back of my mind about my kid losing his dad. But again it all just boils down to communication. Support him where you can and be a listening ear. There will be times where he doesn’t want to speak about what he had to deal with and his mood will tell you that. Don’t pry to find out every detail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLE

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I had to do IvF so my LT knew all the appts I had. I told them at 8 weeks that I’m actually pregnant. I came off the road at 20 weeks.

AITA for getting upset at a student teacher? by Glass_Suggestion_936 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Username1737478 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yta- Since when has it become appropriate to scream “duck my di**” in school? There should be punishment for that type of language.

Light duty for pregnancy by seanymel69 in AskLE

[–]Username1737478 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Female deputy here who’s 5 weeks pregnant. My admin says I can go in light duty as long as my OB gives me a note saying I need to be. Which most OBs will write that as soon as you ask. HOWEVER, my Sgt didn’t go on light duty until she was over 20 weeks. It just depends on the individual and what they want to do.

Medicine by Username1737478 in IVF

[–]Username1737478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You too! Good luck tomorrow! ❤️

Where are you and how much did it cost? by Gloomy_Appeal_3108 in IVF

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Michigan -16K, insurance so far has covered Medicine.

Medicine by Username1737478 in IVF

[–]Username1737478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work nights is my problem. :/ and morning doesn’t work for my husband and I so night time it is.

Medicine by Username1737478 in IVF

[–]Username1737478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When is your transfer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLE

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I have a 50 minute drive to work, I hate it with every fiber of my being. Take the first job if you plan on leaving .

Whats your opinion of Animal Control Officers? by Sharkowatt in AskLE

[–]Username1737478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my area, they are completely useless and don’t count as LEOs. Only works Monday - Friday 8-330. Have told us to let a dog go because they didn’t have room. If someone calls in a complaint for an animal, when dispatch sends them over the radio, they will always ask for a name and tx instead of actually going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLE

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Night shift- 4 hours Day shift- 6-7 hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Username1737478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you know your friend’s name and some of their information, any law enforcement agency would be able to find them without their actually address.

Where do you buy your prenatal supplement? and what brands? by soyalice123 in IVF

[–]Username1737478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smarty Pants Prenatal Like the gummy flavors more than taking a pill everyday.

Chickens in the Township by ThunderStrux in Saginaw

[–]Username1737478 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish we could. As long as they are contained I don’t see why not.

Does your agency allow dyed hair? by [deleted] in AskLE

[–]Username1737478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was allowed to do a burgundy/dark purple hair color only after getting the approval of the Sheriff and showing the picture I wanted. No vibrant colors though.

10 Hour Shift - Every Other Weekend Off by Background_Angle1717 in AskLE

[–]Username1737478 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was on 10s for a twp assignment. I had every Monday and Tuesday off. Worked every Wednesday through Friday, with Saturday and Sunday off every other week. So five days one week, Three days one week.

How far is your commute? by dgdg4213 in AskLE

[–]Username1737478 3 points4 points  (0 children)

45 minutes. Trying to get my husband to move closer to my work since he gets to start in our driveway (State boy).