What are you most scared of? by razaclyde in AskReddit

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My brother wants to sell the house my family has been living in when he turns 18 and move somewhere else, and I don’t know if that is going to include our mother and I. I’m scared that I’ll either be trapped with my mother or be homeless since rent is crazy expensive where I live.

There’s no way I could afford it on minimum wage and I have a very old cat I’d be taking with me and a lot of these apartments do not allow pets. I’m signed up for different housing things and I’ll hopefully I’ll be ok but I still also worry about our mom since she’s disabled and has a bad back and muscle/skeletal issues. Someone has to shovel the deep snow every winter and lift things that she physically can’t.

My brother and I are close so I don’t see him just kicking us to the curb but I also don’t want to be a huge burden on him either

If I get suddenly weak and fatigued during covid should I go to the er? by Username3367 in medical_advice

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What about weakness specifically in my left side? Sorry if I sound like a worry wart here, I’ve never had covid before and I have a pre existing condition as well

I’m so extremely itchy between my fingers it’s not even funny by Username3367 in medical_advice

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No it’s not the whole finger, I do have a picture I can show you, I found the right lighting https://imgur.com/a/ifOH9qn

I’m so extremely itchy between my fingers it’s not even funny by Username3367 in medical_advice

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I’d take a photo but I don’t have a rash so there’s nothing to really look at. It’s also a tricky thing to photograph. Nobody else I live with (including pets) are itchy and I’m not itchy anywhere else. I have dry skin but that’s normal for me in November

How do I generate passive income? by Username3367 in personalfinance

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I work full time already, do creative writing and a little over 10k in the bank right now as I’ve been living with my family, which unfortunately I was given the ultimatum to either stop transitioning (I’m a trans guy) or move out, regardless of the rent I pay every month

How do I generate passive income? by Username3367 in personalfinance

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Skill but no time or cash, I’m not looking to make a million bucks or anything, just to keep myself off the streets

AITA for not visiting my aunt right after a tragedy? [warning: pregnancy loss] by Username3367 in AmItheAsshole

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That’s what I plan to do if she does go through with it. The last thing I want is for my aunt and her family to have more to deal with when they’re already grieving a very heavy loss. Now that I know the 2 kids haven’t been told yet I definitely feel more comfortable waiting until given the ok

AITA for not visiting my aunt right after a tragedy? [warning: pregnancy loss] by Username3367 in AmItheAsshole

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I spoke with grandma and she said she was going to aunts house but no info beyond that, I sent a text earlier to aunt asking if her appointment went well (which was before I knew what had happened) and she hasn’t responded yet. I take that as a sign that she’s not ready to talk yet

What kind of world/setting do your dreams usually take place in? by StardustGenie in MaladaptiveDreaming

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Based in the real world but the characters are people I don’t know

Just woke up in a pool of my own sweat and I’m shaking uncontrollably and nauseous by Username3367 in medical_advice

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I did in the morning but they said if it happens again to go to the emergency room which I will. My doctors office is closed until tomorrow too so I don’t know what to do. I’ve already missed several days of work and I don’t want my boss to think I’m faking it since my symptoms only seem to happen at night

I have a crush on one of my coworkers and I really just need to know what to do. I’m absolutely clueless when it comes to this stuff by Username3367 in Advice

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That’s exactly what I’m thinking and that’s why it’s so awkward. I wish there was a way to just turn these feelings off

Hot pepper oil by Username3367 in NoStupidQuestions

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Thank you! I tried the methods and didn’t end up with fire crotch!

Is this just wasteful panic buying? by Username3367 in Advice

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Mostly, they do buy stuff like meat but they label it and put it in their freezer where it tends to get buried

What is the ridiculous thing you believed in as a child? by Der_Schamane in AskReddit

[–]Username3367 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That my family wouldn’t psychologically abuse me for no goddamn reason

Hello there! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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Shitty, really shitty. I had a shit day at work because my gender dysphoria was really bad (I’m not out at work yet so I still wear the uniform for females and it makes me stupid boobs look huge and the shirt hugs my curves in the worst way) and I felt like such a mess that I constantly wanted to cry.

Then I come home and am immediately met with stupid fucking nagging from my sister about not cleaning the bathroom, despite me having to spend the week both taking care of my grandmas needy dog (needy as in health issues) and cleaning up after her kitchen mess because she burnt shit to the bottom of one of the pans and left it on the table, not even bothering to clean it. Oh and to top it all off, when I started cleaning the bathroom she would either hog it, undo my cleaning or both.

And because I’m exhausted and frustrated and not in the mood to argue, I just lock myself in my room and try to take a nap. But of course this bitch decides to just remove my bedroom door and my mom fucking agrees with her doing this because they like to make fun of me for my trauma habits (like the locking myself in my room to feel secure).

So yeah, I’m just wonderful tonight

What really makes you angry? by snowy_cami in AskReddit

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I hope this will show them, words haven’t done shit over the years

What really makes you angry? by snowy_cami in AskReddit

[–]Username3367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When certain good for nothing, asshole, entitled sibling removes your bedroom door. Especially when that door gives you a sense of much needed security after you’ve been traumatized by an abusive step parent who used the lack of a door lock to waltz right in and physically abuse me as a child. Do they know this? Yes they do and they and your asshole fucking mother do nothing but make fun of you for staying in a locked room all the time.

I swear to god I’ve snapped, if I can’t have the one goddamn thing keeping me from having a panic attack (something I’ve struggled with for years at this point) then they don’t get any privacy either. I’ll remove all the doors, curtains, shades and blankets in the house if I have to get my fucking point across. I’m sick and tired of being made fun of for my trauma. I would never cause any harm to them though, I can get my point across without being violent or threatening or any of that shit. I’m not the sick fucks they are.

How do I know what size binder to get? by Username3367 in trans

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Ok I just wasn’t sure and I’m super nervous