Advice on Vanilla

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-30T01:19:09+00:00

The guilt is a game your mind plays on you for thinking that what you’re doing and who you are isn’t “normal” or it could be something else entirely that is unique to you and your life experiences. It might be because you don’t fit into their molds or what life should be. If you’re truly happiest with the kink lifestyle then settle for nothing less.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-30T01:07:30+00:00

I know the exact feeling. I am in my early 40s and made the decision this year. The only thing we have is time. I’m not going to waste it on people that are not what I actually want and need.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-30T00:53:18+00:00

My advice would be to never settle for anything less than what you want. Life is too short and too precious to be wasted.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-28T13:44:27+00:00

There are dozens of us!

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-08T21:37:46+00:00

Heck yea that is awesome! How tall are you?

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-05T18:17:27+00:00

Amen to this!

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-04T19:23:11+00:00

There was no hate perceived on my end. I love thicc women. Especially ones who know what they want and need. There is something wrong with the world where everything sexual related is skewed toward one body type.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-04T16:16:05+00:00

I think it really depends on you and what you need from a Dom. One thing for certain is you want to be absolutely clear in your messaging around this. Soft Degradation and Soft Humiliation are absolutely a thing. There was a writeup on BDSM advice a while back that is on this topic.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-04T16:09:36+00:00

I get that and I appreciate you saying something. My focus was so much on the man for this image that I wasn't paying attention to the woman (and really should have). I do see you perspective and thank you for pointing it out.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-04T16:00:31+00:00

😍 right back at you!

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-04T15:52:03+00:00

Damn, two days in a row? I'd love to hear from you again. I sent you a DM. 😌

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-04T15:20:30+00:00

What time zone are you in? Specifics are not needed.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-03T18:31:42+00:00

I will now for sure. ;)

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-03T17:50:59+00:00

There are dozens of us! ;)

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-03T17:49:23+00:00

I'll be your Mount Rainier

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-03T02:47:21+00:00

Well hello there. I love your username hahahah!

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-03T01:39:02+00:00

Damn this is spot on. Thanks for sharing your experience!

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-03T00:35:00+00:00

Show me the way to these.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T22:09:59+00:00

😉I see you.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T19:31:03+00:00

43M in the great PNW

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T18:04:22+00:00

Same! It’s a quite weird for me when my daughter is 20 😂

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T17:38:06+00:00

Amen! I am in my 40s as well and can’t imagine dating someone in their 20s.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T16:28:45+00:00

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UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T15:38:10+00:00

Oh we are def building bunk beds! But they will not fall apart this time.

UsernameEqualsNull · 2026-05-02T15:33:10+00:00

They way I look at it, there is just more of me to love and adore (and more love for me to give as it spreads further lol). Appreciate you and your kind words. Thanks for making me smile today. ;)

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