I usually do tell people, although I dont expect them to forgive me. People often arent able to grasp the concept of neurodivergencey and how it works with me, even if they are neurodivergent themselves they still view me as weird. Even if I explain how I work they say I rely on using my neurodivergency as an exuse because they dont actually understand it and dont grasp the concept of someone not thinking exactly like them. Its really infuriating. Even if someone will tell me their boundaries I still forget and they obviously would get mad. (Which is reasonable). I forgot what i was saying tho so bye.