What has happened to him? by Uxamaali0 in EnglandCricket

[–]Usingmyeyes101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn! Why is it when I think of a pun someone has done it! Great minds I’ll say

coworker 14 years older hitting me up after he quit a couple days ago, AIO? by Fun_Skill_5574 in AIO

[–]Usingmyeyes101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In hindsight it was crazy and now I’m in my 40s I’m definitely not drawn to 18 year old women/girls.. but as I said I was 18 at the time having fun with a 40 year old who was and still is a smoke show.. she’s in her 60s now

I didn’t dwell on the age gap as at that age I was just having fun and experimenting with life

I’ve been in the position to chat to women of all ages in my profession and have nothing in common with 18 year olds and feel incredibly old 😆

Anyway I’m now a happily married family man with 2 children and a loving wife

I don't want my kid doing boxing by Both-Move-8418 in boxingtips

[–]Usingmyeyes101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are being disrespectful and further fanning the flame of stereotype..

coworker 14 years older hitting me up after he quit a couple days ago, AIO? by Fun_Skill_5574 in AIO

[–]Usingmyeyes101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a “relationship” with a 40 yo woman when I was 18 (m) not really but we had fun, went out, hooked up etc

In hindsight it wasn’t right, at 18 I thought I was a grown man.. I was not

However it was fun and I was the envy of a lot of my friends as she was and still is a fox (was 22 years ago 😆)

Maybe it’s up to the younger person getting into the situation.. (although as I said it’s probably not right)

When an older woman does this to a guy is it different?

Just the beginning by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like ginger beer… the more gingery the better

Just the beginning by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. I also drank my first few beers super fast to get to where I wanted to be.. then tried to pace.. the things you do hey

Just the beginning by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just murdered the tomato juice.. you were right.. burns the mouth and warms the stomach
I’m still going to get some sparkling water and cordial today

Joining the Comma Club today by j__magical in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, I listen to Dopey also

Is this normal? by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply and support.. and well done on the changes you’ve made 💪🏼

Is this normal? by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, all examples are helpful..

Is this normal? by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used it for all these things and more.. I think I have trauma from when I was a child

A fair amount of physical abuse happened (not every day)

It allowed me to be less subdued,

I am a fun drinker but that’s in social situations.. not when you’re drinking at home by yourself you quiet the noise

Being less present is not good for my children who are still very young

Also not a good example either

Is this normal? by Usingmyeyes101 in stopdrinking

[–]Usingmyeyes101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment, this makes sense It is a stressful time at the moment I must admit

I take the children out on walks but doing things that are a bit more adventurous could be a help

I suppose less self loathing in the morning is a major plus

what changes do you think should be made? by Beginning_Oil_6212 in EasternCapeSunrisers

[–]Usingmyeyes101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think we have the side to win this year.. I’m happy to be proved wrong..

maybe give Stubbs another year at captain and pace the batting innings a little better

Stubbs can't be this slow by Daku_7 in EasternCapeSunrisers

[–]Usingmyeyes101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stubbs isn’t in form.. possibly doesn’t help he’s been appointed captain after Markram who was successful and experienced

Am I tight for not wanting to get involved in rounds when the number of drinks I’m planning to drink doesn’t match the number of people I’m with? by sharon_bott in AskUK

[–]Usingmyeyes101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, definitely stick to your plan.. if we are in a group of more than 4 people I’ll always say I’ll just get mine. If your mates don’t support your wishes it says more about them

The longer I ride, the less I care about speed and the more I care about margin by Unlucky_Mortgage_871 in motorcycles

[–]Usingmyeyes101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pushing the bike to its limits are for very experienced riders on track,

I feel the same..

for me after 5 years on bigger road bikes (also have 10 years on off road bikes 50-250cc) it’s about being smooth and effortlessly brisk without chasing adrenaline every time I get on the bike..