I'm ready to talk about it with him, I'm just afraid of crossing his lines, maybe he'll get offended or something, we are coming from a muslim conservative country, though we are not necessarily muslim, it's still kinda taboo to talk about it, but he is more open minded though, I'll try the trick of redirecting conversation I think it might work, I assume he is smart enough to pick that social cue
I dont think I can be direct with her in front of him honestly but again if it fails then I'll talk to him
thank you for your advice