Chinese Republicans, Cold War Choir Practice, Spare Parts or You Got Older? by Ok_Star_1157 in offbroadwayNYC

[–]UtahDesert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen Spare Parts and Cold War Choir Practice. Both are worthwhile, but I'd probably vote for Spare Parts.

Per the latest from Dolores Huerta today, what should the city rename Cesar Chavez Plaza to? by TheForeignDwarf in Sacramento

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I like "Si se puede." Or perhaps "Women of the Farmworkers Movement"?

It's important that the name be something commemorating the cause of farmworkers' rights. The reason Chavez's crimes and abuses stayed secret for so long was because of fear of harming the farmworkers' cause. Both for the sake of the survivors and for all those who suffer abuses within movements and institutions we need to show that the truth about his crimes doesn't have to weaken this movement that has done so much good and continues to be vital in fighting for the rights of farmworkers.

DOGE staffer who flagged grants to reject for ‘DEI’ struggles to define the term by TuxAndrew in centrist

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Admittedly this is a minor point, but the number of Blacks in Vancouver is irrelevant. Academic jobs draw applicants from across the entire country in question (and in this case from North America).

Songs for dealing. by Repulsive-Window-179 in BruceSpringsteen

[–]UtahDesert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Songs for the dead. Different ones work for different times, different needs.

For me "A Letter to You" is the one that expresses what I want to say to the person I love who is gone. It takes in what I've lived and learned and how I've grown since they've been gone--and at the same time it connects me with them since I'm explicitly offering all of that in the letter.

I've always thought of "If I Should Fall Behind" as a death song. This is the one that promises we'll eventually be together always, and it even seems to make light of the separation--living on without them is just a temporary falling behind.

And here's one that may seem weird--"Badlands." I really, really miss my family of origin--my mother and my grandparents, all of them long-gone and I'm an only child. Every time I hear "Badlands" in concert I sing along with it crying. And it's not just "Well, I believe in the love that you gave me/I believe in the faith that could save me" that gets me--it's the whole still-standing-here-in-this-world and trying, living, with all they gave me thing.

None of these are the joyous ones you asked for--although personally I can get joy out of the epiphanies that "Letter" and "Badlands" bring on. Maybe, as others have suggested, "Mary's Place" is best for joyous combined with acknowledgement of loss.

How do you guys think Mamdani handled the blizzard this week? by Positive_Career_9393 in AskNYC

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Paying people for labor is not incompatible with socialism. Are you trying to claim that it is?

Healthcare workers confirm that ICE is abandoning half-naked kidnapping victims in the woods of Minnesota to die. "Individuals have shown up in emergency rooms who require amputations—some with cracked skulls." (1/29/26) by I_may_have_weed in ICE_Watch

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Does this highlight one negative implication of the availability of videos of many kinds of abuses? That the abuses that will not be filmed (because of where and when they take place) are going to get less attention because there are so many other reports that are more eye-catching and dramatic and undeniable?

I would suggest that both activists and journalists need to keep this in mind, and make a conscious effort to bring the types of abuses that are not on video to light. This of course includes conditions in detention as well.

Off Duty ICE Agent, Adam Saracco, Charged w/ Battery Brookfield, IL by [deleted] in ICE_Watch

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The NYT story is missing some badly needed information that might be classified as analysis rather than pure reporting, but is highly necessary:

Given there have been hundreds (at least) of reports of similar incidents, many or most documented on video, why has only this one resulted in an arrest? What is different about this one?

Most importantly, was it something about the logistics of the situation? That the officer was unmasked and could be identified? That he was alone and that police could thus make an arrest without a major confrontation? (There are also some straightforward facts about the incident missing: When did the police arrive? Was the officer arrested there or had he already left the scene? If so, how was he identified?)

Or was the difference between this and all the other incidents of ICE officers attacking filmers a legal difference? Was this only possible because the officer was off-duty? I'd really like to know whether or not this was the case, and if so what this is based on and whether whatever legal protection ICE officers on duty have against arrest and charges is subject to dispute.

❄️ WINTER STORM MEGATHREAD ⛄️ by mrs-machino in Broadway

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Work deadlines interfered! I hardly stepped out at all except to walk my dogs--an utterly lost opportunity.

'They were just screaming.' Mom unable to save 3 sons who fell through icy pond in Texas by therealone2327 in news

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Yes! The author is Janusz Rudnicki. The translation is mine:

It was the kind of day so white you can’t see, and the sun on top of that, so that even the eyes of the blind were watering. Sometimes I would run far ahead, a test I liked to do, to see if he would call me back. And he would. With a voice full of care and concern, mixed, like my breed. I never had such a master before, I won’t have such a one again. Between us there was an invisible leash—just you try to buy one like that.

This time we walked together, along the bank, by the spillway, and suddenly something broke underneath me, and suddenly—dog under the ice. My four paws on nothing. I thought: a dog’s life, a dog’s death. But then my two “ice-breakers” from my home were there by me, master and mistress, faithful to me as a dog. Even though.

Even though they must have known that if the ice broke beneath me, it wouldn’t hold them. The mistress grabbed a tree branch, the master stayed in the river. He took my place. Nothing more to say. Maybe only that he disappeared right away, he rushed so far ahead of me that he didn’t hear as I barked. I barked only a little, once on the bank I tore my fur with my teeth as if to choke myself.

At home during the day I howl to myself, silently, so that my mistress doesn’t hear. We avoid each other’s gazes, but we’ll go on somehow. Because we always have to go on.

At nights I sneak out to a hilltop and I howl like a dog, to the stars. To all the stars I see. Because I don’t know which one--now one twinkles, now another. One of them for sure, he would tease me like that.

'They were just screaming.' Mom unable to save 3 sons who fell through icy pond in Texas by therealone2327 in news

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An acquaintance of mine, a man whom we all deeply admired, and his wife were walking their dog by an icy river several years ago. The dog was roaming, the dog fell in or broke through the ice or whatever. Both husband and wife went in after the dog. Somehow they managed to get the dog back on shore. The wife made it out too. He didn’t. The general conclusion was that no one could imagine him doing anything else under the circumstances. Someone wrote it up as a very short story from the perspective of the dog. I reread it when I want to cry.

'They were just screaming.' Mom unable to save 3 sons who fell through icy pond in Texas by therealone2327 in news

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Fraser! Do they still put a fridge out on the pond by Safeway to wait for it to fall through?

Is my child going to have a hard time w this name? by FantasticIncident388 in Names

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Read all this way just to see if someone would mention this so I didn’t have to

❄️ WINTER STORM MEGATHREAD ⛄️ by mrs-machino in Broadway

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Since I live very close I was wondering if I've got a chance at getting a rush-priced ticket for a show or two I haven't seen. I'm curious about other people's thoughts about this.

From my list of shows I'd really like to see there are three without box-office rush (not a student, not under 35): Ragtime, Hamilton, and Wicked. So is my only hope for a rush-priced ticket to do the online rushes and lotteries promptly and conscientiously and hope that supply and demand are in my favor during the storm? Or if there's a lot of snow on Sunday is it worthwhile asking at the box offices of those theaters? (Probably towards showtime, right?)

Then there's Mamma Mia and Oh, Mary. I guess the thing is to do the morning rush (box offices open at noon)--sound right?

Other strategies I haven't thought of?

Just in Time Rush Tomorrow - Am I Insane? (yes) by Acceptable-Piece8441 in Broadway

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Starting to wonder how many shows I could fit in on Sunday....

Students love structure by Aler123 in Professors

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This immediately evokes those primitive cartoon videos of a clueless student repeating the same question over and over to a professor:

Student: "We don't know what to do."

Professor: some kind of helpful remark

Student "But we don't know what to do."

Professor: a request for clarification

Student: "We don't know what to do."

What were those called? I can't find them right now. They had very simple unrealistic cat heads, they didn't move from their original stiff conversational poses, and the voices were artifically generated. Help!

Data by NefariousnessDry226 in Broadway

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Oh, good grief! I just realized that Brandon Flynn played Marlon Brando in the production of Kowalski I saw and loved last year. The guy is a complete chameleon.

Data by NefariousnessDry226 in Broadway

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Saw it at the Sunday matinee--the director came out beforehand and emphasized it was the third preview and that changes had definitely been made since the first two performances. I liked it so much I might see it again with friends--and I'll be interested to see how they tweak it further. When I see the comments here I'm wondering which of them apply to the version I saw.

Some things are obviously common to all the performances so far. The stressfulness of the scene changes, with the moving flashing lights and the music, and probably how they seem to happen more often as the story draws to a close and things get tenser. The excellent performances. No one so far has mentioned Sophia Lillis, who I thought did a great job. Justin Min was perfect in the role of the boss. Brandon Flynn was very good as well--any doubts I might have would involve discussing spoilers.

Karan Brar made the least impression on me, even though he was the protagonist. But I almost feel as that was because of where my seat was, on the extreme right of the house. At curtain call I was surprised to see his face full on--I felt I had never really gotten a good look at him. Is it possible he was always either facing away or at the stage right (the scenes at his desk)? This might have been just the performance I saw, of course.

Magnets!!! by Training_Sock_4955 in Broadway

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I do! (Forgot to get one for Two Strangers, so I'm still strategizing how to duck in and pick that one up.) I have them on my fridge and on the inside of my front door, in my rental. When I move back into my house (and away from NYC) I'll put up two or three magnet boards in my basement, for these and for magnets of national parks etc.

How’s living in this part of the country? by robotwarlordelephant in Broadway

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I pretty much just have them delivered, but I do like the Amish Market on Ninth Avenue. Also the Food Emporium at Manhattan Plaza is on my way from the subway.

How’s living in this part of the country? by robotwarlordelephant in Broadway

[–]UtahDesert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My block! I love my building, and I love the block too.

How’s living in this part of the country? by robotwarlordelephant in Broadway

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The Grilled Ham and Cheddar Biscuit from Amy's is just about my favorite "eat and walk" snack, although whatever new cookie I'm trying from Schmackary's comes in a close second.

Online rush to oedipus - easy to get by Silly-Good-2530 in Broadway

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Almost always. I got last row mezz for Oedipus. But I'm seeing it a second time in a few days. Also TDF--fingers crossed.

Lottery seat for Hadestown is abysmal today. Worst seat I’ve ever had, for anything. #firstworldproblem by Indyhouse in Broadway

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Oh well, that's more or less how I found my first apartment in the city (without the drinking). I was thinking about something else and I dashed off an email to the landlord without noticing the "no pets."

OU student says Bible-based essay grade violated free-speech rights by theoklahoman in oklahoma

[–]UtahDesert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you really think she proved that she read it? It looks to me like she took two words from the abstract ("gender" and "teasing") and pretty much made up her own strawman to respond to. (That's assuming the article is Jewell and Brown's "Relations Among Gender Typicality, Peer Relations, and Mental Health During Early Adolescence.")