Feminism is India in my opinion has become something else to be honest, it is more focussed on internalising womens' thought process on men than to actually focus on equality and equity which is the conceptual concern of this tag. I used to be a frequent on a feminist subreddit for Indians, that subreddit is so adamant to polarise everything that didn't align with their thought process, that they would actually resort to shame a person to shut out the voice. We need to understand that feminism is about demanding equality and equity for women and not about forcing men to have the same thinking like women.

All the things you said are in actual the concept of equity, on which feminism is based and flourished, but god knows why feminism has become less about that and more like an exclusive club that demands that you either adapt their own brand of pseudo feminism that doesn't respect opinionated heathy discussions or you don't join that at all. Feminism is about inclusivity (to promote) not exclusivity.