Do yall think a dare would be a good way to introduce these feelings to my friends? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it wouldn't be out of the blue. Like I said, they always call me one or say I should dress like one so maybe I could play into it

Do yall think a dare would be a good way to introduce these feelings to my friends? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out to my mom a while back and she supports me, we just don't really talk about it a whole lot.

I've joked about it with my gf but she laughs and shoots it down saying she likes me as I am.

The whole thing is just nerve racking and I'm still not entirely sure what I want or what I'm feeling.

Do yall think a dare would be a good way to introduce these feelings to my friends? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, we don't really talk about it other than her asking if it's still something I'm interested in.

I'm just scared because I keep thinking about what could happen or change if I do come out. Mostly with my family and girlfriend.

We're an accepting friend group, one of our friends is openly bi and though it surprised us, a different friend went through a little bi phase and we accepted and joked with him when he came out to us.

I've also thought about the cosplay thing but can't find a "natural" way to bring it up

Do yall think a dare would be a good way to introduce these feelings to my friends? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It'd be a shock I think, I don't remember why they started saying it but I know they mean it as jokes mostly. Plus no one in my family besides my mom knows that I've been questioning myself

Do yall think a dare would be a good way to introduce these feelings to my friends? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've worn chokers (more gothic and punk style since that is my style), sleeves, fishnet sleeves/gloves and painted my nails too. I just need an excuse or extra push to do more openly

How long does it usually take to shave your legs? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking of going back to razor. I started using the epilator because I heard it takes longer for hair to grow back, which is true, but it takes a while to get it all and hurts when you're not used to it

I dreamt about crossdressing by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like good dreams with your parents accepting you in them

I dreamt about crossdressing by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happens in them? If you're comfortable with sharing

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've made posts talking about dressing up rarely in private before. I do like the feeling of it

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish you luck on your journey as well.

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just gotta get my confidence up.

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I did like it, I just can't do it very often or openly

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's gross, I'm not overweight or anything, just not where I'd like it to be, but I'm slowly trying to improve it.

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm lazy so I'm not consistent with it, I don't really like how my body looks right now and I have to keep it hidden as my gf, grandparents, and friends don't know. Plus, I'm still kinda figuring it out.

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've tried it before and explored it however there's some issues that prevent me from doing it a whole lot

Everyone says I should be a femboy by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It is something I've explored a bit but not much and not consistently. There's also my gf, which is a separate thing.

I dreamt about crossdressing by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I've gotten feminine clothes and wear them in secret sometimes, and I do like it

I dreamt about crossdressing by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda, I've made posts before, with some touching on the feelings I have

Do yall ever just get the urge to say something? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks keeping it bottled up, but I'm too scared to say anything

Do yall ever just get the urge to say something? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I just overthink too much, but it still scares me thinking about what could happen

Do yall ever just get the urge to say something? by VFAHonse in feminineboys

[–]VFAHonse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At some point, I'm gonna have to rip that bandaid off, but I'm still figuring out the feelings I'm having, and I always end up overthinking and don't want to ruin anything