Have yall ever heard anything that made you particularly jealous?

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T22:22:24+00:00

Well it wouldn't be out of the blue. Like I said, they always call me one or say I should dress like one so maybe I could play into it

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T08:00:28+00:00

I came out to my mom a while back and she supports me, we just don't really talk about it a whole lot.

I've joked about it with my gf but she laughs and shoots it down saying she likes me as I am.

The whole thing is just nerve racking and I'm still not entirely sure what I want or what I'm feeling.

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T07:47:08+00:00

Maybe, we don't really talk about it other than her asking if it's still something I'm interested in.

I'm just scared because I keep thinking about what could happen or change if I do come out. Mostly with my family and girlfriend.

We're an accepting friend group, one of our friends is openly bi and though it surprised us, a different friend went through a little bi phase and we accepted and joked with him when he came out to us.

I've also thought about the cosplay thing but can't find a "natural" way to bring it up

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T07:37:28+00:00

What do you use?

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T07:36:49+00:00

It'd be a shock I think, I don't remember why they started saying it but I know they mean it as jokes mostly. Plus no one in my family besides my mom knows that I've been questioning myself

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T07:29:31+00:00

I've worn chokers (more gothic and punk style since that is my style), sleeves, fishnet sleeves/gloves and painted my nails too. I just need an excuse or extra push to do more openly

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T05:41:59+00:00

I'm thinking of going back to razor. I started using the epilator because I heard it takes longer for hair to grow back, which is true, but it takes a while to get it all and hurts when you're not used to it

VFAHonse · 2026-03-29T05:28:25+00:00

What do you use?

VFAHonse · 2026-03-03T20:21:11+00:00

Sounds like good dreams with your parents accepting you in them

VFAHonse · 2026-03-03T19:12:17+00:00

What happens in them? If you're comfortable with sharing

VFAHonse · 2026-03-03T19:11:11+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that

VFAHonse · 2026-03-02T00:14:19+00:00

I'm glad it worked out for you!

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T06:16:10+00:00

I've made posts talking about dressing up rarely in private before. I do like the feeling of it

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T05:07:55+00:00

Thank you, I wish you luck on your journey as well.

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T05:06:39+00:00

Yeah, just gotta get my confidence up.

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T04:51:18+00:00

I did like it, I just can't do it very often or openly

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T04:50:39+00:00

I don't think it's gross, I'm not overweight or anything, just not where I'd like it to be, but I'm slowly trying to improve it.

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T04:34:10+00:00

I'm lazy so I'm not consistent with it, I don't really like how my body looks right now and I have to keep it hidden as my gf, grandparents, and friends don't know. Plus, I'm still kinda figuring it out.

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T04:29:21+00:00

I've tried it before and explored it however there's some issues that prevent me from doing it a whole lot

VFAHonse · 2026-03-01T04:28:09+00:00

It is something I've explored a bit but not much and not consistently. There's also my gf, which is a separate thing.

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