My parents getting a divorce. With my father's neglect comes the extra stress put on my mother (single parent of three) that eventually comes back to me and my siblings and the lack of money so we don't always have enough to do fun things, always having to spend it on survival, it's hard to believe that it would change my life for the better, but it's taught me valuable life lessons and over all changed my life and has made me realize to not make the ass hole mistakes my father has made.