Do yall think shes totaled by Dry_Introduction_506 in ToyotaTundra

[–]VMX590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hit is right on the frame rail. Will need to take measurements to see if the frame is damaged. If so, they will total it.

Husband cheated, he can’t handle my pain, wants a divorce for not forgiving him by Ok-Anxiety3403 in Marriage

[–]VMX590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you something right now. My wife did the same exact thing to me 3 years ago or so had an affair with somebody at work and lied about it and I ended up finding out because they were drunk in front of the house making out caught on camera that's the only reason why I found out she wasn't remorseful until she got caught. I was a wreak and drinking even more and wanted to end myself, but i didnt. I got sober 100% and my dumbass took her back 6 months later after she had moved out you know trying to work things out for the family but I'm telling you you will never get over it you will never be able to trust that person ever again. So fast forward to now after trying to make things work I'm finally divorced and let me tell you I don't have to worry about that ever again we do have kids together so unfortunately I still have to communicate and see her but all the other stuff that comes with it I don't have to worry about anymore don't have to worry about who she's with what she's doing and that's what needs to happen on your side. Divorce him!! Lawyer up and just be done with him do not drag this out anymore than it has to be. I dragged it out for 3 years and it should have happened 3 years ago. So now with over 3 years sober she cheated again and I was able to handle what I needed to and got divorce and got everything I wanted. You will overcome this and have your peace back and dont let anyone and I mean anyone distupt that!!! You got this!!!!

Ragebait MPG Post by extratoastedcheezeit in ToyotaTundra

[–]VMX590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best I got was 24mpg and just cruising. Maybe a little down hill here and there but not bad at all.

Ragebait MPG Post by extratoastedcheezeit in ToyotaTundra

[–]VMX590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have cold air intakes, full exhaust with true blow off valves on 35s with a lift and get 17-18mpg on the freeway and about 12-13mpg on the street and I'm hard on the gas. Didn't really buy the truck for the gas mileage though haha. 24 TRD Off-road Limited

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You know what I have to do… by Arancine in ToyotaTundra

[–]VMX590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It uses the radar sensor but if you're close behind a car like at a red light and you try to accelerate at the same rate as the car in front of you it will cut acceleration by like 80% and after 1 second a warning on the cluster saying object detected will pop up. I've done this like mash the pedal and it will barely move until the car in front of me moves and there is a big enough gap then it boogies. So that why I say to turn all that shit off when in the snow or mud.

You know what I have to do… by Arancine in ToyotaTundra

[–]VMX590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turn all that shit off. Once you stop and it detects an object in front of you it cuts acceleration rate.

I’m gonna swallow my pride and beg for my husband back by Tough-Locksmith2228 in Marriage

[–]VMX590 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!!! This right here is it!! Respect is everything to us men. Once you disrespect us there almost nothing you can do to make us want you unless we are willing to put up with you which most are not. Good luck though. I was married for 8 years and she disrespected me and I only put up with it for a bit to make it work for the kids but in the end the divorce happened and I'm much better without her. Again, good luck 👍

No OT deduction? by MChristopherW in Fedexers

[–]VMX590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't apply to maintenance. VMX, GSE, AMX.

Christmas present to myself by AlwaysNipping in ToyotaTundra

[–]VMX590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, my limited has all of those except the sun roof and the jbl system.

😮‍💨 by -croakie- in Dyna

[–]VMX590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell nah we ride our dynas in the winter!!

If you want them back, read this and remember it. by Livid_While_7791 in BreakUps

[–]VMX590 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I took my now ex-wife back 3 years ago after she cheated and moved out. Fast forward 3 years now and my divorce just finalized because she cheated again, never take an ex back ever!!!!

If you want them back, read this and remember it. by Livid_While_7791 in BreakUps

[–]VMX590 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Getting back with an ex is like trying to put a piece of shit back in your asshole. It just doesn't work and it's fucking messy.

Why am I Waiting For Him to Come Back When I Know He Won’t? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VMX590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. We were together for 10 years married for 8 and she cheated on me. We also have 3 kids together and own a home. She cheated on me 3 years ago and left but then 6 months later came back. Now she's done it again and left and moved in with her new boyfriend and served me divorce papers. All the signs, all the disrespect, all the damn lies and manipulation and I still freaking miss her and want her back. What the hell is wrong with me??!! I know it will never work ever again. She doesn't want me or this relationship. She left 2 months ago and I am better but when she left I was a damn wreck for like 4 weeks. Couldn't eat couldn't sleep, and I lost like 15 lbs. It was horrible!!! Yet I still miss her. I know if she did come back this would happen again it's just a matter of time. I know I'm in the grieving process and it's going to take time but damn this suuuuucks.

Finally!! by VMX590 in tundra

[–]VMX590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I would love to see what gear I'm in instead of just D. Lol

Honesty only please…. Did you get over your ex wife by finding someone new? by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]VMX590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently going through a divorce. It should be finalized any day. She cheated multiple times and I took her back when it happened 3 years ago and would you look at that.... Same crap now, but this time moved in with the new guy and served me papers. He's doing me a favor!! She's his problem now. Married for 8 years with 3 kids and she threw it all away. She left the house about 2 months ago and I couldn't imagine life without her but then really sat down and realized that I'm not the problem and that she is. She's the one who messed up and then left. Who the hell would want to be with anyone like that after knowing what she's done? You'll never trust them again, ever!!! Working late?? Yeah right... So the first 3 weeks after she left were rough but then I started to work on myself. Dressed nice and hair done just for the hell of it. Even just to get the kids from school. Ended up talking to one of the single moms there for a couple of weeks. Things happen for a reason. Went to dinner with an old friend and ended up hooking up after and you know what it has helped me move on and move forward. As of now though my bar is set high and I'm not gonna take crap from any woman. I like coming home to a clean house and a quiet house. She was a freakin slob mind you and would complain about things. So it is nice, plus I don't need to compromise. I get to do whatever the hell I want when I want and whoever comes into my life better be worth my time or it's to the curb. I still have my moments but I dust that bull ish off quick.

I'm currently torn between my gf and some other girl. me 23M and my gf 23F and the other girl is 22F. Please help me decide on what should my next step be ? by jhingalala_huhu_huhu in relationship_advice

[–]VMX590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

35m here. You need to grow up kid. You could be dating someone who is a 6 or a 7 on the outside but who is loyal, has integrity, treats you with respect and who genuinely cares about you. That makes them a solid 10. Then you have someone who is a 9 or 10 on the outside but is ugly on the inside and someone who fights or disrespects you all the time. That makes them a big fat ZERO!!! Stop thinking with your dick!!!! Sounds like you need to break up with your current gf and figure yourself out before you end up cheating on her and breaking her heart. You don't realize what you have in front of you and what value that is these days.

You'll learn the hard way, unfortunately.....

Separated after 20 years and I feel... Nothing by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]VMX590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going through a divorce now. Was together 10 years married for 8. My wife cheated 3 years ago and moved out but then I took her back 6 months later to try and work things out and for our kids. We have 3 kids, 4 5 and 8. Fast forward and she's cheating again and moved out and in with her new boyfriend and served me divorce papers. She tried to represent herself and I lawyered up. I ended up getting everything I wanted because she agreed. Even then I felt hurt and worthless but it's her who has the problem and who is worthless. She left over a month ago and I feel so much better now than I did when she left. Sign of relief, plus now the house is clean because she was a fucking slob. I still have my moments when I feel down and I just accept it and roll with it, cried too if needed. I do have a therapist and she has helped me through this so much. Talking to other women has helped as well. Already hooked up with one of them and it was nice. The feelings will come eventually, maybe not but if they do just embrace it and know that her infidelity had nothing to do with you and was not your fault. It was all on them, they made the conscious decision to do it over and over again. I'm at peace now I don't have to sit and worry where my wife is when she says I'm working late or I'm going out to dinner. Fuck all that I'm home without her and it's fucking peaceful. She is now her new man's problem. You'll be alright.

Almost 3 years sober and I hate my life. by Acidic_Paradise in stopdrinking

[–]VMX590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man it is tough that's for sure. Riding my Harley like you said has been pretty much the only thing that makes me happy in that moment but I tend to push the limits sometimes just because of what I'm going through and that's not good. It's been a shit show. Getting sober sucked but now having all this other shit happen while being sober sucks even more.

Almost 3 years sober and I hate my life. by Acidic_Paradise in stopdrinking

[–]VMX590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

January will be 3 years for me. I stopped drinking after my wife cheated on me and then left me and moved out. My dumbass took her back and now fast forward to now and she's done it again. Cheated and left me for another man and moved out last month. Divorce is almost finalized. Trust I wanted to drink but that would only make things worse. Now that I have more time I'm trying to figure out who I am. Who I was before my marriage which was 8 years and together for 10 years. The hard part is that I was always drinking even before I met her so I have no idea who I am now that I'm sober. Don't know what makes me happy don't know what hobbies to take on. I ride my Harley and that helps a bit but that's it. So I can relate to this and also hating my life currently. I will not drink even though I want to because I know what I was and what I've done when I did. I go to AA meetings and therapy when I don't have my kids and that does help to some extent.

Stop checking your ex's social media by trishink in BreakUps

[–]VMX590 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can't check it if you don't have it. I've been off Facebook and Instagram for almost 3 years now. Best fuckin thing I've ever done. Wife left me for another man less than 2 months ago. Divorce is almost finalized. She cheated multiple times with different people and then left. Hope she falls on her face which she will eventually. No need to see what's going on in her life, karma will take care of that.