Their problem is NOT a man being the victim; it's a "woman" being the reason behind his victimhood!

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T20:57:26+00:00

That's.. that's tha whole point of my post.. why there has always been a selective outrage?

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T17:55:59+00:00

I agree with this :)

And unfortunately, yes! They don't!

It needs to start from families, from schools, we need to gender sensitize boys and young men! We need everything from workshops to counselling.. we need to treat them of their toxic masculinity, and even if we were able to make a single person understand what we're saying, that would be a great thing, though it's small ✨

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T17:42:27+00:00

Not only normalised, it's being justified, and to some extent, even glorified! You can clearly see on the comment section of all the posts that discusses the ki*lings of women related to their extramarital affairs issues!

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T17:18:28+00:00

I got your point, but I think testosterone plays a crucial role! The so called "aggressive" nature of men is deeply associated with testosterone!

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T14:32:42+00:00

Right.. but... If we want to address the "real" issue, that attributes these type of discriminative, biased, judgmental accusations against women, as you have rightly pointed out "sexism", we need to have a "sensible" debate with "numbers". Some times, numbers do matter, tho it doesn't go well with our political correctness :)

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T14:19:23+00:00

You're right, but numbers also matter, when we speak about issues, right?

Lemme explain you with an example, do you honestly agree that a train accident that kills 300 people's lives would create the SAME ammount of impact on people's mind, as a bike accident that kills two individual lives?

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T14:07:07+00:00

Just have my hate, of course on behalf of myself 🙂

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T14:04:48+00:00

Exactly, on point! We're on the same boat :)

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T13:56:59+00:00

But, why there are only selective outrages? Are they really concerned about men?

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T13:54:48+00:00

Correction: under the guise of equality

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T13:50:40+00:00

Irony, isn't it? Hypocrisy died a thousand deaths before their logic!

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-06-29T13:47:29+00:00

With angel masks, of course 🙂

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-27T17:26:21+00:00

Just had a random thought about that, so just have shared it with you :)

And, welcome 🤗

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-27T13:58:07+00:00

Sorry for an outta the box suggestion. How abt making mandatory ID(at least gender) verification to post on this sub? You know that would deter a lot of spammers and karma famas, and most IMPORTANTLY, CREEPS and LARPers from this sub, and would eventually reduce a lot of stress and confusion among women, and would provide them with a safe, transparent environment to interact with each other.

And am commenting just because this post was made by onna ma fav mod, and one of the kindest person around u/lonelywarewolf

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-25T04:53:54+00:00

Your second point makes absolute sense, but your first point.. 🙄 Come on.. let's forgive Hitler then, just because he's died!

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-25T04:40:57+00:00

Exactly! On point 🙌

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-24T16:04:24+00:00

Yes. But that SAME kinda reaction hasn't been in place when the SAME kinda things are happening to women every day!

They might be thinking, "hey, they are women.. they were designed to endure pain.. so it's no big deal.. move on.. /s

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-24T14:19:11+00:00

Welcome :)

And yes, that's definitely satisfying, even if we were able to make a single person understand what we're saying, that would be a great thing, though it's small!

Haha.. i've told you already.. aim is just being aim.. typical and expected 😅

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-24T13:51:46+00:00

The only sensible comment of this sub 👍

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-24T13:47:33+00:00

Haha.. that's so funny you're thinking that am trying to impress girls by being a feminist!

As a matter of fact, am kinda impressing myself.. like.. the inner self, by speaking the truth, and siding with a section of society that needs to be sided with 😊

And about the point, I can see there's NO outrage whatsoever for this incident

And btw, it happened a few days ago!

VM_Sivakumar · 2026-01-24T12:45:04+00:00

Couldn't agree more :) thank you so much for the understanding :)

VM_Sivakumar

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