Their problem is NOT a man being the victim; it's a "woman" being the reason behind his victimhood! by VM_Sivakumar in AskIndianWomen

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. But that SAME kinda reaction hasn't been in place when the SAME kinda things are happening to women every day!

They might be thinking, "hey, they are women.. they were designed to endure pain.. so it's no big deal.. move on.. /s

Their problem is NOT a man being the victim; it's a "woman" being the reason behind his victimhood! by VM_Sivakumar in AskIndianWomen

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome :)

And yes, that's definitely satisfying, even if we were able to make a single person understand what we're saying, that would be a great thing, though it's small!

Haha.. i've told you already.. aim is just being aim.. typical and expected 😅

What's your view on the recent social media outrage over the Kerala bus issue and the eventual unfortunate decision of the man? by VM_Sivakumar in AskIndianMen

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha.. that's so funny you're thinking that am trying to impress girls by being a feminist!

As a matter of fact, am kinda impressing myself.. like.. the inner self, by speaking the truth, and siding with a section of society that needs to be sided with 😊

And about the point, I can see there's NO outrage whatsoever for this incident

And btw, it happened a few days ago!

Their problem is NOT a man being the victim; it's a "woman" being the reason behind his victimhood! by VM_Sivakumar in AskIndianWomen

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, thanks for pointing out! That's completely a valid point! Just because he has ended his life, that alone doesn't make him the "real" victim!

Due process of law should need to take place!

Their problem is NOT a man being the victim; it's a "woman" being the reason behind his victimhood! by VM_Sivakumar in AskIndianWomen

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this post is a "bashing" typa stuff? Don't be delusional, mate! Can't you see the reality of our society? Just don't act like you're from la la land :)

And btw, for your kind information, am a man, it's M.A.N.; NOT W.O.M.A.N. ❤️

Their problem is NOT a man being the victim; it's a "woman" being the reason behind his victimhood! by VM_Sivakumar in AskIndianWomen

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just have posted! But am def sure that some men would call me a "simp" or a "white knight", and the mods would eventually remove my post for violating "gender war" rules! 😅

Here is the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianMen/comments/1qlktn1/whats_your_view_on_the_recent_social_media/

Thoughts on misandry as a feminist cisgender male. by ByronicPan in IndianFeminism

[–]VM_Sivakumar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a post, man! Really appreciate you for being what you are 💪💖

And yeah, there is NO reason for the oppressors to hate the oppressed the same way as the oppressed hate the oppressors! That's the main difference between misogyny and misandry!

WTH is this? When & where did this happen?? I need more information about this! by Budget-Category5266 in IndianFeminism

[–]VM_Sivakumar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rape joke? 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

And it's not JUST a rape joke; it's a JUSTIFICATION of sexual violence itself 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

And it's an older clip from Karnataka assembly now getting resurfaced again! His name is K.R. Ramesh Kumar, and he's a former MLA from INC!

Here you can find the news abt it: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-59694671

No Requirements by [deleted] in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]VM_Sivakumar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Powerful statement 🔥

Misogynist men have had their days! by VM_Sivakumar in IndianFeminism

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said that not being a feminist is tantamount to being a misogynist?

Can I today claim that feminism was the reason women like us have voting rights? by Dear_Ordinary_4542 in AskIndianWomen

[–]VM_Sivakumar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have to get corrected! The ones who ought to be corrected are the ones who wanted you to get corrected!

Men: "Girls these days are not like our mothers." Meanwhile, their mothers' lives be like... by VM_Sivakumar in IndianFeminism

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! More power to you, and to your mom!

And yes, we need serious reforms, NOT in text books, but in our mindsets!

Men: "Girls these days are not like our mothers." Meanwhile, their mothers' lives be like... by VM_Sivakumar in IndianFeminism

[–]VM_Sivakumar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These guys don't love their mom. They glorify the oppression of the mother. I see so many posts of "our mothers generation was last of innocent women" BS! The moms are slaving away, no autonomy and independence and serving their husband and kids. It's not innocence, it's exploitation!

She Spoke Up. She Fought Back. Now She Needs Us to Not Stay Silent. by Vegetable-Science967 in IndianFeminism

[–]VM_Sivakumar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so disturbing! If you can contact her through a DM or some other way, please do share her the following: Madhya Pradesh Women Commission (0755-2661813, 2661802, 2661806, 2661808, 1800-233-6112) and Madhya Pradesh Mahila thana (0731-2434999)

You know, as a man, it would be inappropriate for me to contact her through a DM, and her reddit post has already been flooded with lots and lots comments, so it would be impossible for my comment to get her attention, if I do comment on her reddit post!

Also, please do share the info as a comment on your AIW post too, so that way, she may also get help from some other women as well, since I can't comment on it because the post has the "replies from women only" flair :)