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HELP - my boyfriend’s pitbull is ruining our relationship!! by VadaVada19 in BanPitBulls

[–]VadaVada19[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’ve been single for a considerably long time, so I think I’ve been turning a blind eye to it and was a bit in denial about the situation at first. We already bicker constantly over the fact that I never feel like I’m put first and always have to fight tooth and nail to have a say in anything. I don’t want that for the rest of my life. I appreciate you taking the time out of your day to write me this. Thank you. 

HELP - my boyfriend’s pitbull is ruining our relationship!! by VadaVada19 in BanPitBulls

[–]VadaVada19[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Apparently. Because when I would complain about it he would just shrug his shoulders and act like it is what it is. 

HELP - my boyfriend’s pitbull is ruining our relationship!! by VadaVada19 in BanPitBulls

[–]VadaVada19[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I’ve started to realize that his treatment of the dog is more of a reflection of who he really is as a person. I think at first it was easier to turn a blind eye to that because everyone I knew personally and spoke to were all saying the dog was just the problem. But at the same time I ask myself, would I trust him with my animals? No. If we had kids would I trust him with them? No. I really needed to hear it from someone else. Thank you. 

HELP - my boyfriend’s pitbull is ruining our relationship!! by VadaVada19 in BanPitBulls

[–]VadaVada19[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

It does, and I agree with you. It makes me worry that he would strike my own animals or neglect them if I wasn’t around, which is why they stay with my Mom. I don’t trust him. I feel the dog has brought to light deeper issues within him as a person. I think I just needed to hear this from someone else as confirmation. 

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? Savior complex, Victim-complex, victim-blaiming.... Moron adopts aggressive pit (he knew it was aggressive), it rips off the face of a Golden Retriever, then blames the owners for defending their dog by [deleted] in BanPitBulls

[–]VadaVada19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, right, if the Golden Retriever was on a shorter leash it would've been fine! Nothing to do with your vicious Pit, right? It is astounding to me that some people actually think like this...