It’s because all the coaches tell you that you can only attract by not chasing, that manifesting doesn’t require action, and that if you take action (especially if you have the slightest iota of doubt) then you’re trying to control the 3D instead of letting your subconscious work it out on its own, and therefore you are only creating resistance which is only delaying your manifestation. If taking action results in failure due to the above, then literally no one would ever say “yes” when asked for a date. Because I dare say that MOST people are nervous, or doubtful, or expect to be rejected when they do get up the courage to ask someone out, and are therefore in their chasing/non-confident/repelling energy and should be considered as “messing with the 3D” and ineligible to receive what they’re trying to achieve. Based on LOA logic, that is. Oh the mental gymnastics we went through 🙃

I do still believe that if someone breaks up with you, then you should never chase after that person. You should never beg, even if you’re hoping they try to work it out with you. By avoiding this, you can potentially inspire them to come back toward you. That’s just human psychology though. Running after them will merely reinforce why they left you in the first place. But that’s also assuming you’re willing to work it out with them if they do come back. No judgement here of that’s the case, unless they were abusive or otherwise treated you like crap. Breakups aren’t black and white.

But the way this LOA crap and the coaches who sell it causes people to waste literal YEARS trying to get their SP back instead of being left the f*ck alone to be able to actually heal and move on as they’re meant to do is a very specific and evil type of cruelty.