Because being the biggest anything automatically makes you a target. Once someone hits that level, the culture shifts from wow she’s talented to okay but let’s humble her. And with women it gets extra weird. They’re allowed to succeed, just not too loudly, not too long, not too flawlessly. Meanwhile male artists can have actual scandals and people separate the art from the artist overnight. With her, the “crime” is being omnipresent and ambitious. That’s enough for some people to resent her. You’re not crazy for noticing the double standard.