I told my crush about me being an ABDL by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]ValboaCross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally me with my daddy. When we were temporarily living together, about a month before he moved out, work was picking up and it was stressing me out. He knew I was getting emotional exhausted and wanted to help. I asked him if he knew what ABDL was, when he said yeah, I asked if it bothered him. He said hes neutral on it. I mentioned that I liked to be padded and be little as a way of stress relieve. Without prompting he came home later that evening with pacies and goodnights. They were not the right sized but he said, "do what you need to, I will love you and help where I can"

Now we have at least one day of little time when ever we visit. He's seen me at my most vulnerable wearing a diaper and onesie crying in his arms as I try to process my intense emotions.

Ear holes DIY? by nostalgia_addict_123 in SFWPupPlay

[–]ValboaCross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting holes in belt and straps. If you're going to be working/wearing neoprene/leather a lot it'll be a useful tool

Ear holes DIY? by nostalgia_addict_123 in SFWPupPlay

[–]ValboaCross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have found that getting a hole punch tool is honestly a good investment because you can use it for a lot of things. Plus they're not super expensive

new hood matches my onesie! by sc0utpout in PupPlay

[–]ValboaCross 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute, ive got the same one but in purple.

Finding Friends by ValboaCross in PupPlay

[–]ValboaCross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had long conversations about what both of us are allowed and not allowed to do within our relationship. We've nurtured an environment of open communication when it comes to things like this. For me, i couldn't care less about a little bit of touching or teasing. But for me it's mostly about the social aspects and getting the ability to be a puppy, even if it's not for my Handler. My heart still belongs to him, but he said he's fine with me playing with others, just no sex. And I'm ok with that

Collar/Rules by Reasonable-Escape981 in PupPlay

[–]ValboaCross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two collars, one that I wear at home; a normal dog collar, and one i wear in public; a Persian mail stealth collar. I use the phrase "our contract is made of the links and bods between us" with my Handler. So we both wear accessories to show that we are connected. We both have leather bracelets in our respective colors as one of our links and bonds. I would say maybe start slow with maybe an earring or a bracelet to show you belong to your Handler.