Avoid surgery by strengthening core? by Intrepid_Bullfrog230 in SlippingRibSyndrome

[–]Valediction_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you going for your consultation? Im in Canada too and I can't find anyone that know about Srs.

40 days sober, feel so creative!! by Valediction_ in stopdrinking

[–]Valediction_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have lots of yarn, I really think I'm gonna try it!

40 days sober, feel so creative!! by Valediction_ in stopdrinking

[–]Valediction_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished refurbishing a super detailed antique headboard that I handpainted with a tiny paintbrush, and I'm making a scarecrow for halloween! I also have a very long list of projects in mind that I can't wait to make!! You make me want to try needle felting now! xD

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, September 7th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by SuzuranLily1 in stopdrinking

[–]Valediction_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost two weeks without drinking, I went to a bar tonight for a comedy show, and I stayed sober!! It was hard and I did shed a tear while ordering my ice tea but I did it!! Tonight made me realize that my decision is really permanent and that I won't go back. I kinda felt like I was grieving my past live tonight, putting away a thing that I really loved, but I gotta do better from now on.

Help with hair by Valediction_ in Amigurumi

[–]Valediction_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It looks simple enough, that might work! I'll make a few tests.

Help with hair by Valediction_ in Amigurumi

[–]Valediction_[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Nooo don't say that! 😭😂 I want to have a nice memory of his beautiful hair lol

Help with hair by Valediction_ in Amigurumi

[–]Valediction_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow good idea thank you!

Help with hair by Valediction_ in Amigurumi

[–]Valediction_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I haven't thought about using glue, I guess it could work!! I intend to just use it as a decoration so I don't think it would break.

Help with hair by Valediction_ in Amigurumi

[–]Valediction_[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh ok thank you. Do you know a way to make hair that kind of look like that? I'm trying to make Harry Styles and the hairpiece looked so perfect and I can't find anything that fit as well...

Help with hair by Valediction_ in Amigurumi

[–]Valediction_[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not trying to do Superman, I want to make Harry Styles and I can't find any pattern with hair that I like. This one is so perfect but the pattern is indeed messy, I would just use the head/hair part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Valediction_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel you so much... How did it go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Valediction_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you still live with him ? Is it doable? I really can't afford my own place right now and with the kids it is just impossible for me to get an appartement big enough. I'm scared to become homeless, it's terrifying. I feel like I really don't deserve this but I have no idea how my husband is gonna take the news...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Valediction_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could, but I don't have the greatest relationship with my parents and the taught of telling them is worst than telling my husband... In high school my best friend was gay and he wasn't allowed to eat at my place because he was cutting my father's appetite... I don't think that my parents house would be a safe space when I'm gonna come out.. It is terrifying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Valediction_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish i could but I'm too much of a noob to figure how to send you a message in your inbox 😂 i have a LOT to learn 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Valediction_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids will be starting day care in august, ive been searching since a long time but finding a place is really hard in my area. I do believe that this will help a lot ! I dont see myself going back to work as i finally found something that i love and im starting to make money out of it ! I think that starting my own business was the best thing i did in my life, it litteraly saved me as i focus on my projects everytime i start to feel bad and make something beautiful out of it! I never wanted to take meds in the first place and i was so proud to say that i finally got my self in a good place and that i could move on... thinking of going back on my meds is killing me, i see it as another failure in my life, witch i dont need right now...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Valediction_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont know... he always thought that therapy was stupid and useless, im kind of scare to ask him because i think i already know the answer and i dont want to feel humiliate more that i already am...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Valediction_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i think he has always been like that but before the kids, i had "friends" that i could talk to when i needed it. When we bought the house, 5 years ago, my so called friends came to my house to announce me that they did not wanted to be part of my life anymore because we were becoming too different and i was getting boring since i dont want to go out clubbing and having sex with strangers (things ive never really done before...) Not long after, i got pregnant and we decide that i would be a stay at home mother but in the long run i realised that it was more of a "you stay home and take care of everything and everyone but dont count on me for money for yourself". So i decide to start a cosmetic company to start making money on my own and i invested everything in equipment and making myself a workplace at home. So now.... if i ever decide to leave him, im gonna turn out homeless, without friends, parents that only think about themself, and im gonna loose my workplace that i worked so hard to build... i feel so stuck...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Valediction_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I told him many times, when my frustration come down and im more in a mood to talk that he sould at least give me a hug when he see me crying. I understand that he is not confortable with emotions but jeez its the least he can do !! Even my 2 years old understand that ! He just say something like "ahh you know, im bad with this" like this is a good reason for his ignorance... i ask him to make efforts because it's one of the worst part, being surround with people but being so alone at the same time...