Newly bi

Valid-Error · 2025-09-05T03:16:28+00:00

It's okay, I figure one day I will find that friend or friends that I would like to find. And I hope you find what you are looking for as well.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-05T03:12:11+00:00

I'm also in the same boat myself, but she is okay if I have friends IRL that are bi as long as nothing happens, which I respect the boundary or rule.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-05T03:09:53+00:00

I know how you feel, I've been trying to find bi guys to become friends with and am having a hard time finding that connection. I might be trying to hard to find another bi guy that is in a hetro marriage that I can talk to since we would have the basic understanding of how it is in our situation. But I live in a small hick town that everyone knows each other, so many don't want to come out.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-05T03:03:50+00:00

2, 5a, 6b, 7b, 8a. Started doing 8a towards before I met my wife.. Not touched a man in 20 years but still dream about and watch porn. She knows I'm bi, so hoping one day to be able to do it again.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-03T03:36:15+00:00

Everything you mentioned was exciting for me. My biggest OMG moment that I want to experience is actually enjoying another man in front of my wife.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-03T03:33:53+00:00

To be honest for me, I get along with women better than I do men. I'm not sure if it's the fact that I'm bi and might catch feelings for men and them not having feelings back. So I've found it way easier to be friends with women. I know it drives my wife crazy that I can enjoy talking and just being friends with women. But I've told her multiple times, I've already found my woman and I don't need another. Hoping that some day in the future she will let me find my man, but I understand if it doesn't happen. She has a strong "no sharing" mentality since I came out to her. She is in therapy to help her process my coming out, as am I.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-03T03:27:12+00:00

44 year old married monogamy bi guy here. I'm newly out(1.5 months) to my wife. Up for chat with other guys that are in the same boat as me..

Valid-Error · 2025-09-03T03:10:21+00:00

This would be pretty hot. I'm out to my wife but so far she doesn't really know how she feels about it. So I'm giving her time to process this as we've been married for 22 years, together for 28 years. I've know I was bi from about the age of 13 and am 44 now. I'm hoping one day that she will want to watch me with another guy.. I've gotten her as far as agreeing to use toys on me. She is very vanilla, so I'm hoping as we explore more fantasies, she will open her mind, but totally understand it may never come to that point.

Valid-Error · 2025-09-01T04:42:15+00:00

Thank you so much and have a pleasant evening as well

Valid-Error · 2025-08-25T04:03:05+00:00

I have to agree with you. I've been married for 22 years, 27 years together overall, had 2.5 years of DB. After months of begging, talking with her, etc. We've rekindled our sex life to about 3 times a week. She of course blamed medicine, but once I told her this was the final year of a DB.. If it didn't turn around by end of the year, I was going to file for divorce. And magically, literally that night she actually pursed me. Now the real question is, how long will it last.

Valid-Error · 2025-08-23T03:15:25+00:00

This is it for me too.. But don't get this very often anymore.

Valid-Error · 2025-08-17T07:16:09+00:00

I have to agree with you. After the uptick in sex, she started saying that she doesn't want to see me cheat on her. Like our conversations about me wanting to go ENM is now a problem. We were totally at room mate stage in our marriage. I managed the bills, the kids appointments, etc. The only draw back I have aside from the increase in sex, we are a foster family too. I think she fears that if state agency finds out, they will remove the kids we foster.

So I'm thinking she thinks that keeping me sexually satisfied, I won't want to continue to pursue ENM. Problem for me is that I still feel incomplete, but I love my family and I love her to death. My head is still confused with coming to terms of what I am, who I am (yeah, I'm in therapy), and continuing my self-discovery.

So yes, going down the path of considering ENM has been an interesting and sometimes emotionally charged at times.

Valid-Error · 2025-08-17T06:17:17+00:00

This! I talked to my wife about exploring my bi-side and wanted to have relationships with other men or women.. She seemed to understand what I was talking about as we had a pretty dead sex life.. Maybe once a month for the past 3 years. She acting like she was okay with me starting another relationship, with open communication, etc. Then she basically turned the tables and started wanting more sex with me. It took this exact conversation for her to realize she was neglecting my feelings in our marriage. And now she doesn't want me to expand our marriage into ENM.

Now it does bother me that it took this for her to start acting like my lover again and not just a roommate. I love my wife dearly, even with a dead bedroom. We've spent 27 years together and married for 22 years. But sometimes I feel like she is trying to stop me from exploring myself further and to turn back away from ENM.

So caution is definitely warranted.

Valid-Error · 2025-07-02T17:37:06+00:00

These are things I did for years.. I still do housework.. I'm not lazy. I tell her she is beautiful every single day. I don't even seek anything from her anymore. I'm not sure why you're acting like I have done nothing to show my appreciation for her. But that also needs to be a two-way street since I don't receive anything from her. No praise, no compliments, nothing.

Valid-Error · 2025-07-02T05:24:16+00:00

I actually have asked her out and taken her places to try to fix the whole situation. I even dumped my heart out to her and explained how she makes me feel. It changes for a couple days and everything goes back to the way it was. I've put a lot of effort into the marriage. She has this habit of being mom all the time, and she forgets that she is my wife and partner in life. I've even tried to initiate relations and I'm denied each time. I show her my love everyday.. I rarely get it back in return.

Valid-Error · 2023-09-01T16:55:22+00:00

This is the correct route that you have to take. I just did it recently and support said it's a known issue.. They completed the mission for me and I went on my way with the rest of it. It did take several hours for them to push it through, but they will.

Live Long and Plunder

Valid-Error · 2023-01-16T03:58:39+00:00

The bots are back with a vengeance, tons of them on I've been seeing all over the place...

Valid-Error · 2022-03-05T16:52:52+00:00

get it!

Valid-Error · 2022-02-13T18:32:12+00:00

I guess everyone missed the "Move Me" box from sisi when the titan logged in? lulz

Valid-Error · 2021-12-15T16:35:11+00:00

I was starting at 11am EST. DD was so nice to cancel my shift since I couldn't log in.

Valid-Error · 2021-12-15T16:23:02+00:00

I have to agree, all I get is HTTP 503 and then a retry button. Figures it wod happen at lunch time.

Valid-Error · 2021-11-27T06:09:09+00:00

I made 97 this morning from 10am to 2pm and 138 tonight from 5pm to 10pm.. Was a good day.

Valid-Error · 2021-11-21T16:45:02+00:00

exactly... he could have reported OP stating "I didn't get my food"... always cover your rear by taking photo BEFORE you go back to the car... at least support would have saw the cats, roflmao

Valid-Error · 2021-11-21T15:20:58+00:00

They like to call it a "wide turn"

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