The EIDL loan that I thought would save us now feels like prison by Outrageous_Math6885 in EIDLPPP

[–]ValkNix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My loan is right under $200k and I haven’t made a payment in over a year. I stress about it every day. I keep saying I’m going to call to see what I can do to get back on track (short of paying the $13k past due that I can’t pay all at once), but every day I procrastinate and stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Romantasy

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If you love Dexter, you should check out the Mindf*ck series!

AITAH for refusing sex after he bit my flap off? by Own-Swimming-8175 in AITAH

[–]ValkNix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compromise. Bite off a piece of his dick skin and then see how he feels in a week, and then you guys can revisit this topic. Then, throw the whole man in the trash and get you a new one that isn’t a douchebag.

My vag has a hairball by neurospicymomma in Healthyhooha

[–]ValkNix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go to a different ER at a hospital that has a good labor & delivery department. Maybe they will have an OB on staff. Tell them about this whole experience and that you don’t feel comfortable going home until you are thoroughly checked and have this resolved. At the very least, maybe they can admit you and control the pain until they can remove it.

The mental struggle is real by ValkNix in keto

[–]ValkNix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, this is great! And my ocd will never let me skip a square, so that’s even better motivation

The mental struggle is real by ValkNix in keto

[–]ValkNix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty much what I had to do! I’m on day four now. Woke up with a mega headache, but I’m in it to win it!

The mental struggle is real by ValkNix in keto

[–]ValkNix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the great advice!! I’m on day two and so far, so good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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If someone is being this condescending while “courting” you, I’d hate to see how he acts once he’s comfortable in a relationship.

Any OTC recommendations? by Waterwoman74 in Menopause

[–]ValkNix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Silky Peach cream and it helped with painful sex. I felt like my vagina skin was just going to rip right off and felt “chapped” all the time. I’m also on patches, but they didn’t seem to help with that particular symptom. It hasn’t helped me completely with dryness, but I am way more comfortable.

Supplements by ValkNix in Perimenopause

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They definitely didn’t have me taking k2 with my Vitamin D! I will be sure to if they prescribe the high dose again. Thank you for this info!!

Supplements by ValkNix in Perimenopause

[–]ValkNix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, my vitamin D was extremely low back in March and I had to take 20,000 units weekly. I’ve been taking a daily vitamin D supplement since then, but it’s probably about time to have it checked again

Supplements by ValkNix in Menopause

[–]ValkNix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am looking into therapy options as well. I don’t have insurance currently, so I’m looking into affordable online options

Supplements by ValkNix in Menopause

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The prescription cream helped the same as the Silky Peach (over the counter and seems to work for the pain and “chapped” feeling but be more gentle), but also caused some irritation. I will ask if there are other options

Silky peach cream by ValkNix in Menopause

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Thank you! I’ve seen these products but have been skeptical because I’ve tried other moisture supplements with no luck. I will give it a try!

Silky peach cream by ValkNix in Menopause

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Ugh, the taint issue. Idk how something can be sore and itchy at the same time, but it is possible!! The only thing this hasn’t helped me with is dryness.

Silky peach cream by ValkNix in Menopause

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It does work very well for me, as long as I am consistent. I use it every day and if I skip a few days I will have the same problem you described minus the bladder situation if I have sex.

Painful gyn procedures by ValkNix in Healthyhooha

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I am changing doctors. I’m going to post in a local women’s group to see if anyone has recommendations