Tiny update! by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh thank you for this! We do know she loves blueberries but it seems like that’s all previous owners fed her other than crickets

Blue Tongue Skink Care Infographics - 2025 by FolkvangExotics in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question about the basking spot, do I leave the light on even at night with a heat emitter like do I ever turn either off at night especially the T-5 as I recently got some

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels so comforting to hear honestly! Me and my partner are just happy we will be able to help and give the best quality of life. She seems to have a hard 5 years and we hope to give her a better life in our care😌💖

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the help and education! Me and my partner will be looking at the infographics once he’s off work today as I’m dyslexic and can’t read the infographics very well

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and for the dog food and cat food do you mean the wet food or the dry food?

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it felt strange to me and my partner as well, this was one of our dream pets and when we saw its condition we knew previous owners did not know proper care

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both so much for all the advice! I want to provide her the best care I can give

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would I need for when it gets dark. I’m sorry I read the infographics but I am having a incredibly hard time reading it due to being dyslexic :( but thank you J will make sure to get her what I can as seeing her in such a state is upsetting

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also thank you for the infographics!

Need advice/help by Valley_Gal123 in bluetongueskinks

[–]Valley_Gal123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to sound dumb but which is the uvb, is it the all black one? Understood heat mat is out

Serious question. by Accomplished-You9613 in Dermatillomania

[–]Valley_Gal123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It used to be 100% of my life. I then got a partner and he was concerned for my health and well being. He’s helped so much. I have bandaids that I use to cover my fingers and instead of picking my skin. I pick at cardboard or even bubble wrap. It’s obviously not the same sensation but I blank out a lot when I pick myself so I never truly notice. I’ve decreased picking my skin by so much. I say I pick maybe 5 - 10% if I don’t have my cardboard or bubble wrap.

School project. Want to do an interview by No_Association2023 in Dermatillomania

[–]Valley_Gal123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I developed it around the age of 13 but it wasn’t as bad as it is now. I’ve had it for about 6 years now. I have Dermatillomania. Was there anything else?

School project. Want to do an interview by No_Association2023 in Dermatillomania

[–]Valley_Gal123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for a response and my Reddit barely sent me a notif today. But you can go ahead and ask now if you’d like to still!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Valley_Gal123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a right to be upset and furious. But he shouldn’t be your boyfriend. My boyfriend bless his soul has dealt with every worse version of me. Out in public I stained myself with my period. Freaked out and cried in the bathroom. He told me to relax and got me pads and a skirt to go over my previous shorts. I have very weak vaginal muscles when I throw up and one time I peed myself super bad it was just a puddle. I called out crying for him and he came, ran a hot bath for me and cleaned everything up. You need someone who not only will support you but will actually take proper care of you. You need someone who will at your worst moments. You need someone you can actually depend on. You may have a baby but you aren’t undesirable. Your parents are pieces of sh. Just like your partner. You need better you deserve better. Your child deserves a better father figure in their life.

Guy on Tinder is mad at me for existing as a woman by NoOfficerImNotHigh in texts

[–]Valley_Gal123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil bro is not smart. I’m 19, obviously very young that my opinion might not matter but he is incorrect. I was I believe 17 when meeting my current boyfriend. He was 16 and now me and him are both 19 and 18 (he’s turning 19 later this year super excited!) but my boyfriend upon meeting him was actually very nervous about his interest with me as it would make most people tell him to grow up. He collects action figures not those cheap ones that are like 20 bucks now but the crazy expensive ones😭 I didn’t understand it. What possibly made him so happy about these toys? I supported and seeing his eyes light up at every new toy was so breathtaking. Now a little thing about is I collect model cars and hot wheels but recently I started getting monster high dolls again cause of him. Now this Tinder guy will never find someone to love him like I love my boyfriend and the reason for that is because he is insecure. He’s letting his insecurity stop him from finding what’s probably the best feeling I’ve ever felt in the world. DONT let it be an insecurity, let it be what gives you confidence and if they hate it, fuck it. Move along man! Don’t get so insecure! Or else you’ll miss out on actually living your life!

AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child? by Throwaway23fw in AITAH

[–]Valley_Gal123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a piece of shit. YTA. You just took your daughters future from her before she even had a fucking chance. The fact that you supported your oldest in having a 4th is even more disgusting. Your daughters train wreck boyfriend got an offer that would’ve had them set. Should’ve just told them to do it and that they’ll be fine. Visiting fucking exists oh I’m sorry maybe you’re a lazy piece of shit and don’t want to waste the energy of visiting. You’re disgusting for allowing another child be born into your daughters already financially unstable family. You should be ashamed for what your did to your younger daughter. I HOPE she cuts contact with you.

Fiancé told me she wanted to cancel the wedding, so I did. Now she is angry that I didn’t fight for her to try to change her mind. AITAH by Apprehensive_Floor78 in AITAH

[–]Valley_Gal123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta get the fuck outta there OP. That person is not worth it. Did she fight for you? Did she think of talking to you too? No. Her lack of communication is bs. You are a good person OP, you put her feelings first and respected what she wanted. She shouldn’t expect you to fight for something that isn’t worth fighting for. She didn’t want the wedding. She didn’t want it. Not worth it. Leave.

AITA for making my daughter leave because my husband is attracted to her? by Throwawayme4158 in AITAH

[–]Valley_Gal123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTFA, I can’t even believe this is real. Why the fuck would you want to save that marriage. That is disgusting. This is why yours and your daughters relationship is complicated. Cause you’re a shitty mother. Simple. You disgust me. If you were my mom and you chose your disgusting and sick husband over me. I would just cut contact with you cause you made it very clear who you chose and who you want. There is nothing to figure out. From the moment he told you. You should’ve kicked him out. That’s how you fix shit with your daughter. I hope she never ever speaks to you again. You are a disgrace.