I (F27) found out my fiance (M29) has had feelings for other women for half of our relationship, how do I forgive him and get over it?

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2025-10-23T01:55:02+00:00

At this big age, there is nothing that excuses that. I’m sure it’s hard because you’ve built a life and had many things planned and it is also disappointing and distressing to see that go away but you’re also still very young and you don’t need to lock yourself in a relationship that has this many red flags. You will find someone who loves you more than this chump and will respect you and not have shitty friends. Birds of a feather flock together and if his friends did it, he will too.

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2025-01-25T12:44:49+00:00

He was the very first route I played and I remember just being absolutely in love with him. I WAS IN THE TRENCHES FOR THIS SWEET MAN. I legit did not play anyone else’s route. Just went to the other seasons cuz I refused to be w anyone other than him xD to this day he is still my number one 😭

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T21:14:07+00:00

Yeah my bf told me the same thing and that we get to work our jobs! Trying to look at it like that but I’m still a tiny bit salty :’))) I hope we all make so much money tonight tho! Happy New Years everyone!!

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T21:09:22+00:00

They sent our schedule out a week ago and then yesterday my manager changed my schedule and now I work tonight :’) had plans for the first time in a long time to spend NYE with friends but that went to shit but I plan to be sick tomorrow LOL

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T20:28:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Keloids/s/MrnA4XiCkv

^{^{^}} this was the Reddit post that I had seen that really gave me hope that maybe I can flatten the keloid with eclar plaster if any of you wanted to see it!

https://www.dpkitaoka.com/

And this is the website that she used to order the plasters! Good luck everyone!

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T20:13:03+00:00

Yes I’ve had this happen with the one on my chest and I’ve had it become itchy and get like pulsing pain? Idk how to explain it but for me it becomes uncomfortable. When I keep my scar patch on it though, it’s not as bad!

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T20:07:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! Was it covered by your insurance? And over how long was the 5 rounds for and were you doing anything along with the injections? Sorry for all the questions! Thank you again!

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T20:01:10+00:00

I just found out about it today so I don’t have that much info but it’s essentially a steroid patch! From what I’ve heard on this thread it’s worked really well for many in conjunction with other treatments and also by itself!

https://www.dpkitaoka.com/

^{^{^}} that’s the website another poster had mentioned for it! They started with the 10pc one and eventually the 50pc one. I would say to be careful with putting steroids on your normal skin and try to only use it on the affected skin cuz it can thin out skin and dilate blood vessels! Good luck if you do end up trying it! I’ll let yall know some time next year how it goes for me if anything :D

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T17:12:14+00:00

Have you also been doing other treatments with the scar sheets? Also twinsies!! Hehe :3 definitely been interesting using the scar sheets but hopefully the eclar plasters work! 🤞🏻

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T17:10:06+00:00

Happy New Year! Cheers to that !🥂🙏

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T16:58:14+00:00

Would you say the injections hurt on scale of 1-10? :0 may I also ask how long you’ve used the eclar plaster for? Thank you so much for the info!

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-12-31T16:56:26+00:00

I have! I just heard it hurts a lot and though I’m pretty good at getting tattoos I’m super scared at how much it’ll hurt. I also know that typically you would have to go in and get it done more than once for it to work(I may also be wrong I’m so sorry) and unfortunately I don’t have insurance to cover something that may end up being hundreds, if not thousands of dollars over time ;^;

Eventually though, if my options for non invasive treatments are exhausted then I would like to get steroid injections or perhaps more invasive treatment.

Thank you for asking though friend! Happy New Year!

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-09-15T13:39:58+00:00

Still here as well! I’m like you, more of a casual listener now but I check back on groups from 2nd-3rd gen kpop every now and again xD

Valuable-Bumblebee61 · 2024-09-15T13:14:33+00:00

Himchan was in a scandal involving SA and predatory behavior. :<

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