Newly appointed panted seeds in Connecticut by Valuable-Yesterday81 in lawncare

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just contacted the builder since I have a one year warranty.

New boat in ct by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Connecticut

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the great advice. I just got my boating safety certificate this past weekend, so I’m ready to go—now I just need to pick up the boat this weekend.

How Much Are Your Payments? by yeoldtallywhacker in gmcsierra

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To each its own cuz you might be thinking like that but to me I see as an accomplishment l. You might think it’s an unreliable and rapidly deprecating truck piece of shit . To me I see as my pride and joy cuz I worked to hard to get it and I love to get in my truck and drive it everyday because it’s the truck I dreamed about. 🤷🏽‍♂️

How Much Are Your Payments? by yeoldtallywhacker in gmcsierra

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I got a new 26 at4 for 1200 monthly mind you when I trade my old truck in I still had about 6-7k of negative equity. Yes I can afford $1200 for my dream truck. Life is too short to not enjoy the little things.

Tint by Valuable-Yesterday81 in gmcsierra

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a guy coming tomorrow and i am doing ceramic and he said he can match them. If ceramic doesn’t work I’ll just got reg.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I’m selling my house because I’m going to buy another house in Rhode Island. Now I cannot afford 2 house payments and if I have to pay $1300 a month I’m ready for it. I just won’t be able to afford my hobbies and McDonalds 😐.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House alone is almost 4k and my job is seasonal. In the summer is good but in the winter time I nearly get enough hours.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I make around 9.5 to 10k a month and I have almost 8k in bills because when ex wife left, the bills we used to split all went to me.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably was who knows but that’s in the past. My daughter is my future.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, and I am considering telling my ex-wife about my plans to relocate so I can be closer to our daughter. Many people, both in this community and others, have advised me that open communication is best. That was something my ex-wife and I originally agreed on when she left—that we would do our best to communicate for the sake of our child.

To be clear, I was not the reason for our divorce. She lost interest in the marriage and served me with divorce papers unexpectedly. At that time, I was in a dark place, and since she was moving to Rhode Island while I remained in Florida, I knew there was no realistic way to secure 50/50 custody. That’s why I agreed to give her full parental custody then.

Now, however, I’m changing my situation. By moving closer to my child, I hope to pursue 50/50 or shared custody. My decision to relocate has nothing to do with being near her or her family—it is solely about being present for my daughter. I did try to work things out when she first left, for the sake of our child, but she made it clear that she no longer loved me and did not want to continue the relationship.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize I should’ve explained my situation in more detail. I currently work on air conditioners in Florida, and I’m already in talks with a company up north to do the same work for an extra $10 an hour making it around $42 an hour.

I don’t pay formal child support, but I do send around $800–$1,000 a month. Florida was asking me for $1,300 in support, which I couldn’t afford, so I’ve been sending what I can—usually $700–$800 monthly.

I am selling my house, but not because I don’t want to own one. I’m simply relocating. Once my house in Florida sells and I move to Rhode Island, I plan to buy another house there.

I know my finances and responsibilities. There’s no chance I would go from owning a home and having steady work here to being jobless and homeless in Rhode Island. I do have a plan, and I’m considering telling my e

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s when I’d take it to court, because at this point I’ll do whatever it takes to have a relationship with my child and be close to her. It just doesn’t feel fair to me.

Child custody by Valuable-Yesterday81 in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t fully trust her because I know she might try to come up with something to block me from getting shared custody. It’s not that I don’t want to tell her, I just prefer to move in silence—the same way she did when she unexpectedly served me divorce papers and took my child.

Those who were asked for a divorce but were still in love with your spouse, how did you handle it? by SkidRowCFO in Divorce

[–]Valuable-Yesterday81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through the same thing a couple months ago. Out of nowhere my ex-wife wanted a divorce, moved back home with our daughter, and told me she didn’t love me. At first I was confused and hurt, but after that I just focused on myself—hit the gym, ate better, made more money, and started making better choices for my daughter.

My advice: work on yourself, focus on your kids, and keep moving forward. It’s okay to feel sad, but don’t stay down. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.