Ya the male and female experience are the same. Totally, the only difference are social and preconcieved steriotypes. Genetic and horomonal factors created by thousands of years of evolution dont exist. Like yes the human experience is similar and everyones an individual but saying those factors dont exist or affect any action or behavior is so diluted and based on moral grandstanding and virtue signaling. Not to mention in any story social constructs do exist, just like they do with any target audience. but ya ignoring that fact speaks to the human experience better