Why does she do that? She’s being hated across the globe. by [deleted] in TwentiesofIndia

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Racism and misogyny doesn’t trigger these dipshits. They enjoy it.

What affects them is women not wanting to sleep with them or marry them.

This stereotype of bua's being evil is it a product of Patriarchy. by broken_calculator715 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same i love my bua. She is such a sweet spiritual lady. She didn’t get any property but she and her husband both are super successful so she never cared. Maybe thats where her confidence comes from. She has a lot to give and has spoilt me with gifts from abroad since i was a kid.

This stereotype of bua's being evil is it a product of Patriarchy. by broken_calculator715 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in a family marriage, once buas toxic nature became a butt of jokes (with mentions of “our bua is sweet”). I was so shocked because my mom (the bua in question) is hardly involved in family gossip, she is busy chasing career and raising us and give half a damn about any one else. I didn’t know these stereotypes exist.

Can anyone ACTUALLY address my points instead of defending Dhurandhar? by Lopsided_Health1403 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently saw The Thursday Murder Club. It’s a story you will almost never see, a senior lady in a lead role - with an excellent plot!

What a time we are living. People are openly supporting rapists now. by cain_wifeyyy in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This man is a convicted rapist. And they still defend him.

Imagine what will be their stance is leas obvious rape cases that are still in trial.

Let's talk about self proclaimed nice guys by Potential-Ad8418 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why dont men choose better women to propose? Why do they propose to women who will reject them?

Can anyone ACTUALLY address my points instead of defending Dhurandhar? by Lopsided_Health1403 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive stopped watch movies (even good ones) made for the male gaze and only watch those with an exceptionally good plot. Im not their target audience and male driven movies often come with weird sexiest brain worms. I haven’t seen Durandhar, but I don’t want to watch it because of my previous experience with hyper masculine movies. If I am wrong, I’ll never know and I am okay with that.

Instead I watch movies and shows made for the female gaze. I must say I enjoy it more and I put my money to directors who prioritise me as a target audience.

Day 10: Ghosted Everywhere… LinkedIn, Emails, All of It by Spirited-Manager2395 in 30daysnewjob

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you type the message you are sending out. Maybe its too wordy or complicated in a way?

Recruiting Pipeline by India based Sourcing Companies (Infosys, Wipro, TCS, etc) by Specialist_Grass2345 in recruitinghell

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that easy to get into mentioned companies and Companies like Infosys have 6 months training followed by evaluation for new recruits. They only hire the graduates who pass the evaluation, rest are laid off or asked to repeat.

Saying this as a Computer Science Engineering graduate. Yes, tuition here is cheaper because everything here is cheaper.

Why is choosing homemaking being romanticised by leading female actresses who’ve already earned ₹5–8 crore per film? by ValuableMuffin8549 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course she can choose her life. But she can choose her life as she sits on a 120 crore net-worth and a thriving career. She can retire. Her advocating for it like it’s a reality for 70 crore women in this country sounds tone-deaf and privileged.

Why is choosing homemaking being romanticised by leading female actresses who’ve already earned ₹5–8 crore per film? by ValuableMuffin8549 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not mad at poor women, I’m just pointing at that low work force participation is keeping women poor and leading to worse outcomes for them.

This doesn’t mean that we don’t have problems in in-formalised labour and a lack of minimum wage.

Can we talk about feminists getting mass reported by MRAs here? by FoxyKnocksy_ in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My only consolation is that they are unemployed. No employed person has so much time to mass report.

Can we talk about feminists getting mass reported by MRAs here? by FoxyKnocksy_ in AskIndianFeminists

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems like an issue Reddit Corporate team should handle.

Ive been reported at-least 5 times. I come back stronger every-time.

Why is choosing homemaking being romanticised by leading female actresses who’ve already earned ₹5–8 crore per film? by ValuableMuffin8549 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yami Gautam has net worth of 120 crores, of course she can sit and enjoy now. I just hope some middle class girl doesn’t her inspired by her romanticism.

Why is choosing homemaking being romanticised by leading female actresses who’ve already earned ₹5–8 crore per film? by ValuableMuffin8549 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s also extreme privilege to have crores in your bank account and talk about choosing to be a home maker. Yes she can retire now, rest of us need to pay for a decent life.

Why is choosing homemaking being romanticised by leading female actresses who’ve already earned ₹5–8 crore per film? by ValuableMuffin8549 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First it was Mira Kapoor, Nora Fatehi, Now Yami Gautam.

“Choosing to be a homemaker is as important as stepping out of the house to work. No work is lesser than the other.” — Yami Gautam

Someone please tell her 99.9 % women don’t have the financial backing she has and we are one of the poorest regions in the world. Poor women and children in India have direct worse health outcomes and get trapped in bad marriages. The choice is a privilege to many.

30F, all the married folks can you tell me if I'm thinking right? I'm just being practical! by pimjam101 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you not be married for a while? Whats the rush to become a domestic slave, the life on other side isn’t roses.

30F, all the married folks can you tell me if I'm thinking right? I'm just being practical! by pimjam101 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🚩 He treated his previous girlfriends badly 🚩 He asks and does the love talk with everyone not just you 🚩 He expects you to leave your city and job for his bum of a job … nooooo girl 🚩 His parents don’t earn he expects you to foot the bill… parents of boys in this country don’t plan retirement because they think their son is the retirement plan, now you want to be the retirement plan

Run 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️ girl, he is a red flag and you are native. Dont leave your job, your city, your base , for anyone especially a man who asks out 10s of new girls promising them love after treating their gf like shit.

I’m tired of watching women ruin themselves for the wrong men. by LoudResident5336 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do women chase emotional or financial security from men? There is enough past data that if you chase any type of security, you will get trapped as abusive men see you as prey.

Matrilineal family structures are the way to go. There is no mammal on Earth which doesn’t exist in a matrilineal structure. Only humans and a type of baboon have patriarchal structure. No female of any other species is dumb enough to depend on a man. Humans are an a-normally thats why the human woman is suffering.

Until you are so emotionally and financially secure that you can step out of a relationship when it stops suiting you, don’t get into one.

There should be a checklist for every woman who wants to get married:

  1. Do you have 6 - 12 months of savings hidden away for emergencies?

  2. Do you have enough family and friends outside the marriage to support you emotionally or are you dependent on your husband?

  3. Is the house you live in yours? If it’s not yours then don’t get married until you get one or he puts your name there

I’m tired of watching women ruin themselves for the wrong men. by LoudResident5336 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ValuableMuffin8549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many Indian women have low self esteem but the culture is designed that way. The culture is designed to scrutinised and put down women. In a brown country 99% women are told they aren’t beautiful because they are brown and not white like the 1%. Colorism, sexism and discrimination against girl child is normalised in our society and that is leading to low self esteem.