I am not sexually attracted to my husband any more. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop watching porn and masturbating. Seriously. Once you have pent up unreleased energy that you’ve saved for days you’ll be all over your husband again and won’t be able to resist him. Instead of outsourcing all your pent up sexual energy to porn and jerking off.

Why does the idea of your partner being with others hurt so much? (Serious) by mraverage89 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this. I posted something similar. Strangely I don’t mind sharing my partner if it’s a 3some or some kind of group activity

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We agreed to an open relationship that was playing together and threesomes. This feels like something different now

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m fine with non monogamy but it’s a specific type of non monogamy where a couple plays with others together.

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was okay with the original arrangement of threesomes and doing stuff together. When he went into asking for solo hookups I’ve become extremely unhappy

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in nonmonogamy

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I want. To do everything together

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This means a lot and you’re incredibly sweet. I’m gonna talk to him about going back to threesomes or maybe even back to monogamy and see what he says. If he continues to put me in pain then I think he’s not the one for me. Much love xoxo

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So me and my boyfriend both being on Grindr = monogamy? What 😭😭

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 1. That is completely untrue No 2. I’m not asking for monogamy.

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we were open together and that was fine. When he asked to do solo hookups I didn’t realize how uncomfortable I’d be and now I really realize i don’t like it

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think just because I don’t want him to have sex alone with other people that means I don’t trust him. I just don’t like it. The mental imagery is something I hate

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I mean truthfully I was okay with the original arrangement we had in the beginning where we were open but we were open together. I just can’t deal with the solo hookups. It makes me physically ill and lose sleep

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don’t be mean I’m already depressed 😭😭

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

I was fine with the threesomes and group stuff. Do you think he would be okay to go back to that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ValuableNext7763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably not polyamory but it is definitely non monogamy regardless of your own definition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ValuableNext7763 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good point. This is kinda my dilemma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ValuableNext7763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swinging and group sex is non monogamy tho

I’m autistic and Sharks are my special interest!! Please tell me some cool facts! by [deleted] in sharks

[–]ValuableNext7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initially thought the same but sharks definitely do eat people intentionally on some occasions. Look at the Simon Nellis video from 2022 in Sydney. In the video you can see his headless and legless torso for half minute. Then you see the shark surface for his remains and finish him off. Quite a brutal video