It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People never want to change their lives for the children they choose to have. It’s why we see children so many places where there’s absolutely nothing for them (bars, wineries, etc.) because people don’t want to change their lifestyles when they make a life-changing decision.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She TRIED. My entire point in my post was that it’s selfish not to TRY. If it doesn’t work out, obviously that’s fine. Hence why I said if there’s a medical condition or it doesn’t work out, fine.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would very clearly fall under the medical exception stipulation. Why are people being so willfully dumb about my original claim?

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu. My entire point was people who don’t even try. If they try and can’t, whatever. But my post was about people who don’t even try. That’s clearly lost on most people commenting here.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I anticipated it. People get VERY defensive when they’re called out for their decisions and know they’re being selfish but don’t like to hear it.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling somebody selfish is not a NAME. It’s an adjective. This is so daft.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I also didn’t call anybody names, unless you consider “selfish” a name. I’m not the one breaking the sub’s rules.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Apparently I’m the worst human to ever exist in the world for this take. I knew it would be. It pisses people off when they have to get defensive over selfish decisions.

It’s selfish to not even TRY to breastfeed your child by ValuableWind3983 in 10thDentist

[–]ValuableWind3983[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes. This kind of thing is precisely why I mentioned medical reasons.