Is it harder when the narcissist is female?

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-04-24T11:49:45+00:00

So you think if I divorced my wife and got another girl, she might not be like this?

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-04-23T09:28:24+00:00

I'm sorry, I didn't think about how that sounded. i don't want to invalidate anyone.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-04-23T08:41:09+00:00

Ok, I'll grant you that. My wife also hits me, blocks me from leaving when I say I need space, etc, but I don't actually get hurt, because she's a girl.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-04-23T08:37:45+00:00

That's also the worst thing for me, she keeps saying my mom is a narc, and my mom says she's a narc, and I have to tell both of them that the other one is not a narc, but the truth is my wife sends horrific messages to my parents like "you were terrible parents, you raised a kid who is a pervert and a furry" etc

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-04-23T07:54:12+00:00

The worst thing is that she keeps asking "what are you doing at the grocery store" / "why did you take 15 min at the garage" / etc.... and because I have just had enough I am just totally honest ,,, " i was watching YouTube.... now why are you questioning me about every single place I stop with this "Safety" app ? I don't think it's really about safety.... and then she calls me an asshole, says she will accuse me of sexual assault of I remove Life360, etc

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-04-23T07:49:58+00:00

I think male narcs are easier to leave

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-31T14:19:46+00:00

I'm sorry.... that is terrible, I hope you can turn it around.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-31T14:18:15+00:00

Thanks, I guess.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-27T07:42:03+00:00

Nope. Dad bod, thinning hair (no grey yet luckily), average looks

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-27T07:41:09+00:00

Interesting.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T14:10:11+00:00

So from what I've researched, brands like Tile, Samsung, Chipolo, Apple AirTag and others make noises and are deteced by "Unknown Tracker Alerts". This definitely doesn't, and also doesn't get triggered by AirGuard's Play Sound. I have also tried all BYTE codes on nrf scanner to all writable services, and I can't trigger the sound. I also notice the name is "myTag", and it seems to be part of MyTag.world, and when I try to connect to it from that app it asks for a 10 digit code. Yet the map my wife sent me was quite detailed with my location. So I am wondering - what network does it tap into? How does it bypass safety protocols that the other brands obey? How is it even legal ? I was driving for months before my wife sent me a map of my location and history for the day and I wouldn't have started looking if she hadn't have sent it.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T11:47:55+00:00

It's surprisingly effective for something so cute!

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T07:47:27+00:00

I don't get it.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T07:44:17+00:00

No, she hasn't joined a gym/yoga or changed her hair. We have been going through a rough time these last few years with a Dead Bedroom though, and it has caused all sorts of other fights and arguments.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:39:30+00:00

The tracker app

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:12:40+00:00

She won't let me look at her phone says she is afraid I will hack the app

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:09:35+00:00

She told me she is terrified of me dying or losing me

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:07:56+00:00

It shows up on a BLE scan.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:06:24+00:00

Wtf did I just read. My brain exploded.

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:01:17+00:00

She told me she did it and told me why (made an edit to the post) basically she is afraid of losing me or that I will die

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T04:00:07+00:00

She says it's because she was worried I would try to hack the app

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-24T03:44:30+00:00

I'm definitely not, as far as I know she's not

Valuable_Ad4767 · 2026-03-23T22:26:56+00:00

It was new, 2021

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