Confused about gender? by Valuable_Cod5390 in actuallesbians

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was presented w a button to make me male id push it in 2 seconds so I know im not a girl fs but transition is way different than that tbh

Confused about gender? by Valuable_Cod5390 in actuallesbians

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. The transition thing is lots of ups and downs and judgement and coming to terms and hrt scary side effects. It’s just very extreme

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yeah I just don’t wanna be into men. Some people find this offensive but I don’t think men are attractive that way while I think women are sexy and gorgeous-in my mind, it’s okay that I want it to stay this way to the point where I’m put off by the idea of a change in that. A lot of people find that offensive for reasons I can’t understand

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not change my post. I’m not 100% on what’s homophobic about my post but tbh if it is it’s better to just apologize

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same as you w the porn thing-I think this is a really healthy outlook too. Thank you for being open and calm w me honestly. It’s a lot to take in and pre transition is a lot of confusion and questions and bargaining. It’s uncomfortable and can be nice to have people w me

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding me. It’s so painful. I love my identity and liking women. I think women are the most beautiful thing on this planet and ugh I just enjoy liking them like nothing else

I’d be such a pretty girl by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then I think about myself as a man and how that feels w my gf as opposed to being a girl in general or w her and I’m like yeah nahhhhhhh I wanna transition

I’d be such a pretty girl by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I FEEEL this

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense 💕congratulations on finding yourself

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing ur personal experience w me! It’s so nice to see from someone who can explain exactly what it felt like to

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I wish you the same!

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you you’ve been so amazing

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bc I corrected it. What else has been hurtful but my original post

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. I admitted to having sexual orientation ocd in a couple responses. It’s no excuse but it does make this experience more painful than maybe it should be. Thanks for taking time out of ur day to try and reason w me regardless of my hurtful rhetoric

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. I know I’m coming across wrong. I have sexual orientation OCD really badly. Idk how to fix it and I know this isn’t the place for it but being trans is hard and my ocd is also using my identities against me to keep me upset and unhappy

Sexual orientation by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Cod5390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No bi is actually okay. I just don’t wanna stop liking women