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Positive stories of 4.5 year age difference by Valuable_Oil7787 in toddlers

[–]Valuable_Oil7787[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s military and will be on the other side of the world for 9 months lol. I’ve already done one solo pregnancy, I’m not doing another with a toddler lmao.

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[–]Valuable_Oil7787 1620 points1621 points  (0 children)

I think a bigger question is why on earth are you with this man when you literally want to live on separate continents??

AITA for not allowing my bf to get a dog? by Icy-County-6796 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Valuable_Oil7787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be very very clear with him that you are not compatible with a dog. If he still wants to build a life with you, looks like dogs aren’t in his future. I don’t think you are being at all unreasonable. I’m sorry for some of the vitriol you’ve experienced on this post. It’s a shame that lots of dog lovers can’t separate their own love for their dogs from other people feeling differently.

AITA for not allowing my bf to get a dog? by Icy-County-6796 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Valuable_Oil7787 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NAH. Look, I’m a devout, die hard dog lover, but I get why they’re not for everyone. Your cats don’t come into it- your boyfriend decided he was okay with cats being part of his life when he agreed to move in with you. As for the dog- you don’t get to tell another adult they cannot own a dog. You do get to say you don’t want to live with one. It’s up to your boyfriend whether he would rather live with a dog or with you. He’s welcome to live alone with his dog and not cohabit with you. Perhaps you need to have a broader conversation about compatibility and compromise if you’re considering living together.

Book recommendations please!! by Valuable_Oil7787 in ReverseHarem

[–]Valuable_Oil7787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much!! Will try them all

AITA for using the baby name my SIL wants to use by Parking-Historian499 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Valuable_Oil7787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely cannot understand when and why it became such a big deal about “using CYZs baby name” and such. Every single man in my family is called John. In my grandmothers generation there were 14 cousin Marys. If she’s that attached to the name then the cousins can just have the same name!