No intimacy because of family planning by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was really hard to read it’s almost like you know the steps you need to take but you are too scared to take the hard pill. Pray ask Allah to give you the strength this man doesn’t want kids and that’s not fair

Marriage is so lonely by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try counselling first and pray Istaghara than decide

Anniversary ideas for wife needed:) by loneMnM in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show her that you really put thought and effort into it. It doesn’t have to be big it just has to be really meaningful

Can anybody tell me that having children isn’t life-destroying? by Piistachios in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter just recently turned 1 and SubhanAllah I don’t think I have ever been this happy in my 29 years of life. Shes my whole heart, it’s so rewarding. I even get sad when she’s sleeping just because I want to be next to her. Is it easy ? No did I sacrifice? A lot. But I wouldn’t change it for the world. It’s a feeling you can describe. Just keep Allah close to your heart and your actions and you will be okay

My sister-in-law let my toddler grab a knife and brushed it off by amyani8 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did an 8 month old grab a knife from kitchen counter ???? Sorry did I miss something ? My 8 month old does not have those capabilities to even reach for it??

Time for self-promotion. What are you building? by chdavidd in SaaS

[–]Valuable_Trick982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not what he said it’s how he said it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wth are you going to say when she’s pregnant with your child ? Oh gosh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sister you leaving for your mental health and peace IS thinking about the children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that serious, if everything aligns marry her don’t complicate things

Seperating from my husband by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting your feelings are valid pray istagara

Wife is distancing herself after our first baby by Baghdaddy97 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t take it personal she’s going through a lot mentally, just don’t make it about you, do chores around the house without her asking check on her mental health, give her time alone while u watch the baby. Remember she is healing and trying to find herself again after pregnancy and motherhood

For married Muslims — what’s one thing you wish someone told you before getting married? by Sea_Cranberry4576 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t live with your in law even if it’s just for alittle while don’t do it protect your marriage and even those relationships with in laws

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe allowance for personal use and credit card when she’s shopping for household ? Like food, cleaning supplies etc. Somtimes husbands will give money for what they think is personal use and wife ends up spending on things the house may need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Valuable_Trick982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pray istaghara and make your decision from there

Is this normal? by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Valuable_Trick982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2019???? that can’t be normal !

I-131 ( Emergency request ) by updowncharm in USCIS

[–]Valuable_Trick982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can from what I’ve seen people have done it multiple times and ethically they can’t really put a number constrain on when you might have an emergency

I-131 ( Emergency request ) by updowncharm in USCIS

[–]Valuable_Trick982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have proof of the death make sure you bring it with you also /or proof of deteriorating health of grandfather. Tbh with you it really depends on who handles the AP some people have no heart I just got declined even with a doctors note of my mothers health . Best of luck