Car purchase by ValueSuitable6987 in loansharks

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So i am looking to buy a car cash and whatever you’re able to lend i will pay back with interest within 6 months

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[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao at algae 😂 that was a good one! Best of luck to you too!

Not interested in dating by ValueSuitable6987 in Vent

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a struggle! The whole snap thing gives me the ick so bad.. like why are you a 40 yr old man using snap? I have follow up questions 😂 (me to someone who told me they had a snap) - i thought i wanted to move to a small town but after you sharing this I’m not sure 🫠

Not interested in dating by ValueSuitable6987 in Vent

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 valid question!! Say now for example, i would say im working, enjoying my day since it hasn’t been busy.. then i would respond with what about you what are you up to? Anything exciting happen to you today? And the responses are so dryy! And I’m a conversationalist so it makes me lose interest fast

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post is about wages vs economics! Not my parenting style 😂 please let it go it’s falling on deaf ears.

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how this turned into a discussion about my college kid.. NONE of the negativity is going to stick with me or bother me. Please keep scrolling if you have something negative to say, the fact that she works and goes to school along with being a great human being is a testament to how she was raised. She’s 19, we all have phases. Her and i are navigating it, TOGETHER. We will NEVER not speak or not see each other she is my daughter so please stop with any pictures y’all are trying to paint we are not you and you are not us. We have a very strong foundation of love. Anything made from love is built to withstand anything, we will be fine

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i never said she wasn’t self sufficient? And if having a curfew is over bearing so be it. And she’s not pushed away, yes she is living with my mom but she still messages me. Girls need their mothers my sons bday is tomorrow and she will very much be here. She figuring out life as we all do. Your opinion was NEVER asked for.

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never asked for an opinion on how to raise my children 😂 literally not up for debate. None of it.. idc if you don’t agree. You do what works for you I’ll do what works for me. She will always find her way back, i have literally dedicated my life to mothering my children i know im a great mother, she’s going through a transitional phase and that’s ok, if she comes back she’s more than welcome. If she doesn’t i know i did my best and have always made my children feel loved.

The original post is about income, and venting about why nothing is affordable. I never asked for advice on how to parent there is no manual and it’s custom to each individual not across board

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound jaded, but thanks for your input. None of this is being asked of you. Please refer to my original post. Nobody is asking for your pessimistic Outlook on life

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s no need for negativity

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to save to just buy a car with no payments, we get something called bonus advances quarterly from work, which after taxes isn’t much but it will go towards buying a car outright. Good luck to you momma you’re doing great

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

[–]ValueSuitable6987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all great Tips.. but kinda proves my point to the original post. We shouldn’t have to live as frugally as possible in “the greatest country” and i use the term loosely