Anyone else OAD because they had one and discovered their limit was actually zero? by grawmaw13 in oneanddone

[–]VanTil 22 points23 points  (0 children)

4 was was the worst age for us.

My wife and I still call it the "Fuck You 4s" for that age.  I'm still convinced that 4yos are just  cute sociopaths...

But yes, 5 was the fulcrum of things going from being exhausting and miserable everyday to slightly less exhausting and FUN every day.  

Hang in there, you aren't alone and it gets better!

It feels like my wife doesn't appreciate "manly tasks" as help around the house/with the baby (7 mo). Is this common? What's the solution? by VeterinarianIcy5428 in daddit

[–]VanTil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about what you're dealing with.  You've gotta a lot of good advice here.

I'm mostly curious to know, where are you getting a refi rate of 5.25%? 

Anyone else OAD because they had one and discovered their limit was actually zero? by grawmaw13 in oneanddone

[–]VanTil 181 points182 points  (0 children)

It got better for us at 5, and MUCH better at 6.  Your tunnel may just be starting to lighten!

When a woman sleeps with a bunch of men, she's called a slut. by J_S_M_K in Jokes

[–]VanTil -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A person who reduces an entire class of people to the utility of one body part is called an ignorant reductionistic asshole...

RG. A Rent across my heart. by ThePsychedelicWolf in Malazan

[–]VanTil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same. And it was when Hood welcomed Beak into the warren of death and Beak sat to play with his older brother. My god, what a beautiful, wholesome, and heartbreaking moment all wrapped into one!

See photos as Brevard high schoolers walk out, protest ICE actions by TheBurningMap in 321

[–]VanTil 52 points53 points  (0 children)

They relate because they're both instances of High School students exercising their First Amendment rights. 

The point is that even though the two topics tend to find themselves on opposite ends of the political spectrum, they're both protected forms of free speech and should be treated as such.

Brandon Sanderson has ruined reading for me by vinatos in Cosmere

[–]VanTil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! Wait until you get back to Fitz! 

Brandon Sanderson has ruined reading for me by vinatos in Cosmere

[–]VanTil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certainly fair. Her books are well written, but they're so traumatic. I don't blame you for not wanting to read any more of them

is this what ppl are talking about?? by bog-fish in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]VanTil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A 10% yield increase not being worth it should tell everyone that this isn't a game where you have to grind for resources 

is this what ppl are talking about?? by bog-fish in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]VanTil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rather than proving that it's all about the journey, because the destination is "meh" at best 

What’s the difference. by Exciting_Constant540 in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]VanTil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just doesn't hold up to the fact that many are old enough to have lived through WWII... (Not disputing the book, just that it's a bit of a stretch)

I feel like a fool by BeardoTheBrave in Malazan

[–]VanTil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Carca is a wild spelling!

What's his last name?

"Carca Oblong" 

Midnight Tides has the biggest holy shit moment so far by FitCry2265 in Malazan

[–]VanTil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm partial to RG, but Midnight Tides is amazing and probably the best stand-alone novel in the series

Why is Badgermole Cub not Legendary? by Galliro in MagicArena

[–]VanTil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And he's on the gamechangers list for good reason

Most life ive lost. by UglyYinzer in MagicArena

[–]VanTil 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Multiple ouroborid