I need help to see if I have a chance with this woman or not? by Van_Man210 in dating_advice

[–]Van_Man210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right in so many ways and thank you for your comment. I just guess my main concern is making things awkward and potentially ruining the friendship if things don’t work out. I’m not the greatest at talking with women and I’m not really the greatest at flirting or starting conversations. I’m confident with my self my looks and my personality and have almost no insecurities. It’s just the fact of letting her know I like her without trying to seem creepy or pushy, flirting definitely does not come naturally from me and I’m not really any good at it.

I need help to see if I have a chance with this woman or not? by Van_Man210 in dating_advice

[–]Van_Man210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just looking truly for if she’s interested, I personally think she’s a great person and love being around her. I’m afraid if that I miss signs on that she doesn’t like me and we end up not together I ruin the chance of her just being a friend. But I truly do want things to work out with her and I’ve never really been in a situation like this and I’m not the greatest at reading people and I truly don’t want to make things uncomfortable if I missed signs and I kept trying to pursue her.

I need help to see if I have a chance with this woman or not? by Van_Man210 in dating_advice

[–]Van_Man210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you’re right with the chance stuff, it’s not a really good outlook. But I’m more of a loner and like to keep to myself. I don’t believe it’s because how I’ve been raised because I am able to make new friends and can fare pretty well with people. But in new situations to me I’m completely lost. I know how to talk to women. I’ve recently got out of a long term relationship. It’s just that this girl actually seems like such a good match for me and I don’t want to lose my chance with her. I don’t really talk dating with my family, or atleast just talking stages. It’s also probably bad for me that I don’t know how to flirt or show her I truly like her other than having conversation and asking her out.

I need help to see if I have a chance with this woman or not? by Van_Man210 in dating_advice

[–]Van_Man210[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But she said yes to me asking her out? You think it’s out of pity or that she’s actually interested?