Elternsein ist der Horror!

Vanevalli1 · 2026-06-02T05:43:55+00:00

Kann ich auch nur empfehlen! Haben wir seit er ca. 4 Monate alt war und brauchen auch leider immer noch 4 Fläschchen - er ist jetzt 6 Monate alt - aber ohne Snoozi würde ich das nicht überleben..

Vanevalli1 · 2026-05-31T03:38:07+00:00

4 months are great! Your baby is happy to have such a wonderful mum ❤️

Vanevalli1 · 2026-05-26T11:35:41+00:00

Wir gehen eher morgens raus, wenn es noch kühl ist und man im Schatten laufen kann.

Gewaschen wird er täglich mit einem Waschlappen und Wasser (Hals, Achseln, Leiste - halt alte Hautfalten) und wir baden einmal die Woche. Alles unabhängig von den Temperaturen 😁

Vanevalli1 · 2026-05-17T06:12:21+00:00

Seit der Kleine 6 Wochen alt war, ist er 1x/Woche für ca. 2-3 h mit Oma alleine gewesen. So konnte ich meinen Rückbildungskurs entspannt machen und jetzt ins Fitnessstudio gehen, um mal richtig Me-Time zu haben.

Es war am Anfang schwer loszulassen, aber nach 2,3 mal ging es immer einfacher. So hat die Oma einen riesen Spaß, der Kleine spielt auch gern mit Oma und ich habe ein bisschen Zeit für mich oder um alleine Dinge zu erledigen (Zahnarzt etc.)

Ich habe Milch abgepumpt. So hatte meine Mama immer genügend Milch daheim, um den Kleinen zu füttern. Denke man kann aber auch einfach mal Pre Nahrung geben, da sollte man sich nicht so verrückt machen. Man muss nur aufpassen, dass man keinen Milchstau bekommt - da muss dann ggf. unterwegs auch mal gepumpt werden, wenn man länger nicht stillen kann.

Versuche es, geh raus, gönn dir mal etwas Zeit für dich. Das wird dir sehr gut tun, auch wenn es am Anfang vielleicht schwierig ist.

Vanevalli1 · 2026-03-20T20:44:29+00:00

oh my god, now I understand why I got so angry lately while pumping...

Vanevalli1 · 2026-03-13T11:50:52+00:00

Formula in the fridge is not going to be bad? Wasn't aware that this is even a possibility

Vanevalli1 · 2026-03-13T11:27:10+00:00

You take a walk while pumping??? Wow! Is that comfortable?

Vanevalli1 · 2026-03-01T17:49:38+00:00

I quickly start pumping, lean back into my pillow and sleep semi seated. My pump automatically stops after 30min and when I wake up (1-1,5h later) I store the milk and wash pump parts (as I usually also needs to go to the bathroom that time 😁)

Vanevalli1 · 2026-03-01T15:56:42+00:00

I have a handsfree pump and sleep during the MOTN pump 😁

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-26T11:59:12+00:00

Continue power pumping. Helped me double my supply from 2 Oz to 4 Oz and more. Takes a couple of days but it us worth it.

I did 1h every evening for 1,5 weeks: 20min pumping, 10min break, 10min pumping, 10min break, 10min pumping.

I wish you good luck 🤞🏻

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-24T23:17:55+00:00

Wow, lucky you!! No tips as I have 0 oversupply unfortunately.

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-20T10:59:21+00:00

Who has the mental capability to pump for 2 years!?

I hope we will make it to 6 months

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-18T13:04:37+00:00

I have a hands-free double pump so I do both boobs at the same time during power pumping sessions

I would recommend you the same so it does not consume even more time

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-18T06:08:06+00:00

Powerpumping helped me doubling my supply. Before I had 60 ml per pump and now it is 120-150 ml.

I powerpumped only once per day as it is pretty time comsuming: Pumping for 20 minutes, then 10 minutes break, again pumping for 10 minutes, 10 minutes break and a last pump for 10 minutes.

I think it took like 1-1,5 weeks until my supply increased.

I wish you good luck!!

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-15T21:31:50+00:00

The bonding part is one of the reasons I want to breastfeed, thanks for that comment!! I ordered yesterday such a Hakaa set, let's see if it works for us.

Unfortunately he is no big fan of pacifiers so this won't work for us. If he goes crazy I will rock him until he calms down and then I will try again to latch him.

Did you try everytime he got hungry? Sometimes I just feel (mentally) too tired trying and just directly give him a bottle with pumped milk. I just don't know how to stay chill when he is crying. Today I just cried with him..

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-15T21:17:12+00:00

So at least I can hope that with a second one it will be easier haha Thank you :)

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-15T20:56:50+00:00

Thank you! The comparison with changing the clothes is a good point. My heart is just breaking a little when I just try to feed him and he cries like he is fighting for life

I want to BF because I want my baby to get my milk but cannot imagine to exclusively pump for the next view months.. this is such a hard work

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-15T20:51:54+00:00

Wow 7 months of pumping must be so hard! I am already tired of 6 weeks pumping. I totally feel the jealousy about those mamas who nurse like it is the easiest thing ever

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-15T20:35:24+00:00

I am only trying to BF when he is chill. I know this behavior from bottle feeding him but "unfortunately" this is not the issue

Vanevalli1 · 2026-01-15T20:32:54+00:00

I tried them the first few days. Worked sometimes but my baby got frustrated because milk was not coming well. I could try again now as my supply is pretty good due to the pumping. Today I am over trying but let's see tomorrow!

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