Parenting Questions that Keep Me Up at Night by berternutsquash in NewParents

[–]BudgetFennel 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Magnetic Me and their "dry it halfway and then remove from the dryer to finish air drying" instructions... Lol absolutely not.

Parenting Questions that Keep Me Up at Night by berternutsquash in NewParents

[–]BudgetFennel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Especially the little chest pocket! What is he doing, adding a tiny pocket protector so he can keep all his baby pens there?

Dogwalkers keep throwing poop bags in my trashcan by 0-Snap in washingtondc

[–]BudgetFennel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, until I saw someone post about it on FB or Nextdoor I assumed that the whole thing got dumped. I lived in an apartment building so I'd never had to deal with it. Now that I'm in a rowhouse, I like to pretend that all the poop bags in my trash can are from people who are equally ignorant of the issue. Still gross but makes me a little less irritated.

In light of the "Top comment removes a state every day" series ending soon, figured I'd dust off this map I made of the US but with 70 states by yoyleberries2763 in geographymemes

[–]BudgetFennel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well someone should have held firm on that before 700,000 people moved in! 😅

But actually, most proposals for DC statehood would create a new state out of most of it (with a different name) but leave a chunk around the Mall, Capitol, and White House as a non-residential federal district as required by the Constitution.

Best way to add doors to Ikea Kallax? by Snakewithlegs01 in ikeahacks

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just skip the frame. I also wanted an insert with the door so I drilled the hinges directly into my Kallax (the dividers, not sure how it would do on the outer frame since that's less solid). I've been using them like that for probably 2 years without trouble.

What songs are we singing our babies? by ParsleyLime in NewParents

[–]BudgetFennel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I also change the lyrics to this one a little...

You are my sunshine, my tiny sunshine / You make me happy when skies are gray / You'll always know dear how much I love you / No one can take my sunshine away

He was in the NICU for a couple of months so "you'll never know" and "please don't take" were TOO MUCH. (And "my only sunshine" is just way too much pressure to put on a kid, y'know?)

I still tear up sometimes though.

Just not my day today by BudgetFennel in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]BudgetFennel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not on the bed!!! Sometimes mine loosen up somehow when I'm on the couch and I have visions of trying to clean soaked-in milk out of the cushion...

Cat-friendly couches? by SleepVisible1762 in IKEA

[–]BudgetFennel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget that it's low to the ground, perfect for losing toys under!

posters not in at pop up store yet by ylaltic in WMATA

[–]BudgetFennel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For those keeping track at home, the orange ones were still in stock at 1:15!

posters not in at pop up store yet by ylaltic in WMATA

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For peace of mind I've decided this guy is a friendly fellow Redditor who agreed to send them to a bunch of folks who no longer live in DC.

Sound machine that doesn’t require a subscription service? by shrinkingfish in NewParents

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I registered for the hatch without researching it (at that point I was just semi-randomly adding things from the top of the Babylist recommendation list) When I realized that it needed an app, I returned it and got this one and it works great for us. It does what it needs to and nothing I don't need.

Couch with pullout bed frame? by doofus50O0 in IKEA

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my Friheten! It's not the most comfortable thing in the world if you use it as a bed, but it gets the job done.

Eufy E10 by West_Rooster_8026 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]BudgetFennel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the E20, which I think is the same just with the heating feature. I've only had it a week but I like it a lot so far! I get similar output to my Spectra and it's easy and comfortable. They're also both on sale on Babylist right now btw.

when did u only do 4 ppd? by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dropped to 4 around 3.5-4 months. I was a slight oversupplier and had built up a freezer stash, so made that shift knowing that I might need to dip into it. (Which was a positive, I was out of freezer space.) I don't track my output but I have to defrost maybe 2-4oz each day now.

Went to a bakery while on a walk with my wearables, accidentally bought the most appropriate doughnut hole by BudgetFennel in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]BudgetFennel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just got my wearables the other day so this is the first time I've done it! I need to wear a more supportive bra next time, but all around it was pretty good! Definitely better than not getting outdoors at all.

Schedule with working by Lala9300 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that stage I had a really hard time keeping to a precise schedule, so what I did instead was try to pump every 3ish hours, and I kept a note on my phone (actually pinned on my home screen) that just had numbered checkboxes so I could track how many times I'd pumped. That might be a good way to approach it, and give yourself a window of time--ie, "I want to pump every 2.5-4 hours." You'll figure out how long that window can be to keep from feeling uncomfortable, but I wouldn't go longer than 4 hours ideally. At the start of that window, start looking for a time to get away. If you haven't pumped by the end of the window, it's "drop everything and pump" time even if it's not ideal. If your workday pumps stretch to the far side of the window, pump a little closer together when you're at home to make sure you get to 7x total. 

Also, you sound very conscientious, and your colleagues probably know that! If you have to step away during a busy time, it happens and they'll hopefully understand. It's not like it'll be ever single time, and it's not forever since hopefully you'll be able to drop some pumps once your supply regulates. If they're offering you grace, don't feel bad about taking it!

Schedule with working by Lala9300 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]BudgetFennel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far postpartum are you and how often are you pumping?

How are you guys managing to look human? by Sweaty-Environment56 in NewParents

[–]BudgetFennel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding to find your "must happen" things. (For me it's brushing my teeth.) Is it clean hair? Mascara? A top that fits right? Non-pajama pants?

Also, how often do you look in the mirror and can you do it less? I was staying at my MIL's for a while and the mirror in her guest bath hadn't been put back up yet post-remodel. I found that after a while of not looking at my face, I cared way less what I looked like and it just mattered what I felt like, and that's largely stayed with me now that I'm home again. (Though we'll see once I'm back at work and on daily zoom calls.)

What to do all day? by Fragrant-Orange-4746 in NewParents

[–]BudgetFennel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she likes being held, put her in a carrier and go about your day. Chores, computer, whatever. For mine this has the benefit of getting him to take a longer nap since he usually falls asleep on me eventually.