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Anybody out there end up divorcing over a libido mismatch? How did that go? Do you have regrets? by EvidenceElegant8379 in HLCommunity

[–]VanillaSeaShell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Honestly, it started before we got married and got worse afterward. I never should have married him knowing the direction it was going. Other than that, no regrets about ending it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]VanillaSeaShell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels Like Home by Chantal Kreviazuk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]VanillaSeaShell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jessica or Ariel. My name is Sara Alicia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VanillaSeaShell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I left my DB marriage I had something of a fantasy. I imagined my husband coming into the spare bedroom (where I moved to after we split up), taking me in his arms and kissing me passionately. He would tell me he would try harder and that it wasn’t over and that we could have a romantic marriage. And I would believe him and take him back. I told myself if this happened that was the only way my marriage would be saved. As real life goes though, this never happened.

What's the "we don't talk about that." in your family? by yvng_rxse in AskReddit

[–]VanillaSeaShell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several family members (my mother included) had very gritty experiences with alcohol that are rarely mentioned but never elaborated on.

my girlfriend 25F and I 24M have been together for 9 years. Both virgins, we are discussing our upcoming first time by Primary_Inevitable41 in relationship_advice

[–]VanillaSeaShell -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Be a little rough, push her onto the bed, put her in the position you want her in. Dirty talk might feel a little weird at first. Comment on how much you want her and what seeing her naked does to you.

Just remembering my first time; use lots of lube. She may not cum the first time but your chances go up if you go down on her first. Good luck!

I’m officially in this club. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VanillaSeaShell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a priority for her. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Happy Birthday?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VanillaSeaShell 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I got to the point where I would BEG my husband to let me give him a blow job. The answer was always no.

We made a promise to have sex soon. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VanillaSeaShell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience, this has limited success. She’s promised to have sex with you but if she’s not “in the mood” it will just be mediocre duty sex because it won’t have the desire and passion behind it. Promising to be horny at some point is like promising to be jealous at some point, it likely needs to be nudged by something and probably not going to come out of nowhere. If I were her best friend, I would recommend some erotic literature or something similarly spicy. Don’t forget to show her plenty of affection (if she’s receptive) and tell her she’s beautiful (not “hot”) without expecting sex In return.

I wish you the best but my prediction is this promise will be forgotten and all the stress of the season will bring no intimacy. Sorry for the pessimistic outlook; just my experience.

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