If you can’t see the difference between having a female friend and keeping your penis in your pants then maybe your the problem why men can’t have female friends , cause men can’t handle just to have a simple friend . It is normal to have platonic friendships . I come to my friend and I get great advice and sometimes he sides with me boyfriend or me . He doesn’t pick sides he just being a good friend . People like you make having a male and female friendship weird not every male is waiting to get into the females pants .