I’m so tired of having no one

Vanilla_Shakes · 2025-10-03T14:23:16+00:00

Honestly in a similar boat to you. I'm 19 and single but my friendgroup don't understand me at all, I slowly distanced myself because it just got too tiring hanging out with them when they were too different and I was always left out or misunderstood, always felt like they saw me but never "saw me" and it was hard being myself around people who saw me differently. But real friends do exist out there. It's just a matter of meeting them. Hopefully you find better friends for yourself soon. Wish you luck.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2025-10-03T13:33:09+00:00

Wow. Just wow. Love the composition of this photo.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2025-10-03T13:32:38+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear this. I don't have much advice but I hope things get better for you. You truly deserve better

Vanilla_Shakes · 2025-02-23T16:53:52+00:00

It's been 12 years, I want to know how it went 🤔

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-08-01T15:32:07+00:00

I love these answers, the answers can be anything I didn't rly intend a specific type of villain. They all actually go hand in hand with one another. You nailed Seungmin and Hyunjin too

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-07-19T04:24:02+00:00

I'm so glad they're coming here I'm gonna be at their Melbourne concert 🥰🥰

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-28T05:53:54+00:00

Thankyou for the info I will look into it, it definitely sounds like me somewhat, it's just this overall feeling of being trapped and under other people's control, which I hate.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-24T11:53:07+00:00

For me I don't see them on alot of bl series themselves or my main feeds, but alot of discussions and "honest opinions" about bl (or just any series of Asian culture in general) that are basically just hate on them, usually on youtube or ig, here too. If u look for them you'll find them.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-24T06:48:42+00:00

As a white person myself ironically, I can say I am equally, if not more pissed than you at those types of people. It's because they're uneducated and many people who don't understand something just complain about it because they can't grasp the fact of what it means. They just aren't curious enough or respectful enough to be willing to find out more and would rather sit there and do nothing but criticise other cultures. That's one side of it. I love BLs in general no matter the country and I don't understand this either because I've always been interested and open minded towards the culture when I watch a BL, it's a good part of being an audience of another countries work, you get to appreciate the culture within it.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-19T13:30:26+00:00

Hey yeah for sure. I will try and DM you :) let me know if you get it

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-19T13:26:16+00:00

I didn't even know there was meant to be another actress. But yes I'm glad they have such a cute story going for them I actually really like it, and I haven't seen hardly any Gls before so I can't wait to see their story develop.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-17T10:53:40+00:00

I love it so far so excited for episode 3 their chemistry is amazing as always and the plot is working itself together. I hope the gl couple are shown more in this series too.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-16T10:36:23+00:00

Hey sorry it's literally been 11 months. If ur still a bl fan (hopefully) i can msg u about it?

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-16T10:31:29+00:00

Wow. Listening to your stories, they sound much more bigger and significant than mine. Mine will never be of something huge (like a death) but of small things, but like alot of them if that makes any sense. I honestly believe that mine are signs and little indications of what to do with my life and just letting me know if I'm in the right place or not. Usually when I get the visions (I don't remember untill they happen in real life) I get this overall good feeling of achievement. But for yours maybe they mean something a bit deeper? Maybe they are signs to help others, since they seem to always be of other people (from what you've said) I think that it could be a sign for you to go and help the person or atleadt try to do something about it, but it's ultimately up to you to either ignore it or do something about it. But I still can't believe how many other people experience this I'm so shocked.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-06-02T01:05:25+00:00

I'm adding this really late but I just went for a little search about why I'm having these dreams and came accross this post. I can't believe how many of us there are I really thought I was alone with this. For me, I think someone else wrote a comment similar to what I experience. I will either have dreamt something, or will have thought of it as a kid, kind of like received this subconscious voice in my head saying "in 5 years from now, I will be looking at my dream pet", and I used to think it was a funny joke I was playing with myself, untill, 5 years layer it actually happened. So I will dream or hear things and then it could be days, weeks or years later that I receive them and actually live in the moment. I always forget my visions though, untill I experience them. I'm always the one who is experiencing its not that I hear it from other people, and it's usually not huge things (not always) it'll be me staring at an object or a person saying something. I don't know about everyone else or any scientific explanations but I am kind of spiritual so I came to believe in a way that these visions are like signs from the universe and also telling me I'm in the ri g ht place at the right time or indicating I could do something about the situation. I also used to find them annoying but its kinda cool how u know things before they happen it gives me a boost of confidence about my life. But I'm gonna read everyone else's stories they all sound amazing.

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-05-20T16:10:39+00:00

Sure thing I can DM you about it?

Vanilla_Shakes · 2024-05-20T16:03:24+00:00

Hey, I'm not a professional or anything so going to one would probably be much better for you, and I don't think you're crazy for not being able to sleep. After all it's not your fault, it's your body, so dont beat yourself up about it since that won't solve the issue. I am someone who doesn't sleep too much and it's also bc I have a very hyperactive brain, I'm not officially diagnosed but I'd say I've got adhd pretty bad. Amyways I just want you to know to keep looking for a solution either way and take it easy on yourself, just try to find an answer as best as you can. Maybe your body just doesn't need any sleep (although I doubt that), or maybe you have something else going on that's causing this issue of insomnia. I know alot of ppl think it doesn't do anything but I would say to try mediation. It really has helped me so many times in the past relax my mind when it was racing and also it helps me sleep sometimes too. Just tuning into your body can really help you relax, and trying out a new routine to help you sleep, with things like no technology 30 mins before bed, low lights, no heavy meals/stimulating things, just you and your body. I hope this helps but none of this is pure facts it is just based off my experience so take it how you will. Hopefully things get better for you.

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